I joined this site because I am so miserable and wanted an off ramp. This site has helped me understand what's involved in that in very meaningful ways.
The misery is all around unexpected financial challenges and an old house that is eating money. If it keeps eating money we might look at financial devastation...might. Either way we will look at very sparse economic circumstances.
I don't want to stick around to see that. I want to get out in November. I was curious whether my spouse would be interested in this path, it clearly he is not. So I would leave him with the resources to manage through the sale on his own.
Now, looking at how many burdens that puts on him I think I won't. I think it ties the house up as a death investigation goes on. I think it makes the house less desirable. I think it makes it too hard for him to get the job done. I will try to make it through a sale so all the legalities can be taken care of.
I won't commit to trying to live a long life...but I'm going to try to make it another year.
I am not happy about this at all. But I think this is a kinder answer so I thank you all for this.
I have means in my hands, I wish I could go forward now. So much wishing for things to be different than they are.
Crap.
The misery is all around unexpected financial challenges and an old house that is eating money. If it keeps eating money we might look at financial devastation...might. Either way we will look at very sparse economic circumstances.
I don't want to stick around to see that. I want to get out in November. I was curious whether my spouse would be interested in this path, it clearly he is not. So I would leave him with the resources to manage through the sale on his own.
Now, looking at how many burdens that puts on him I think I won't. I think it ties the house up as a death investigation goes on. I think it makes the house less desirable. I think it makes it too hard for him to get the job done. I will try to make it through a sale so all the legalities can be taken care of.
I won't commit to trying to live a long life...but I'm going to try to make it another year.
I am not happy about this at all. But I think this is a kinder answer so I thank you all for this.
I have means in my hands, I wish I could go forward now. So much wishing for things to be different than they are.
Crap.
