Thinking of setting myself on fire with Parafin and matches in front of my aunts house to protest what they did to my parents and I they stole home.

[Mthom2]

They would probably only care about your suicide if it effects them in a bad way. For instance, were you to send a letter/email or something to the news media, go to their office, and do it in protest, your relatives would probably be effected more because you know it'd be in the news (with a possible article on why, based on what you told the media).

The above was just a hypothetical situation, and in no way is intended to encourage anyone to do such an act. Just... don't set yourself on fire. You would inflict more suffering on yourself, which wouldn't be worth the chance that MAYBE their misdeeds would come out. As the old saying goes, there are more ways than one to skin a cat.

 

[theboy]

don't do it

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

They would probably only care about your suicide if it effects them in a bad way. For instance, were you to send a letter/email or something to the news media, go to their office, and do it in protest, your relatives would probably be effected more because you know it'd be in the news (with a possible article on why, based on what you told the media).

The above was just a hypothetical situation, and in no way is intended to encourage anyone to do such an act. Just... don't set yourself on fire. You would inflict more suffering on yourself, which wouldn't be worth the chance that MAYBE their misdeeds would come out. As the old saying goes, there are more ways than one to skin a cat.

this is also a good idea.

don't do it

why?

 

[The Abyss]

Be a shame if something happened to the house.

 

[AnxietyHangover]

Sounds grandiose but I see two flaws with your plan:
First - they might just not give a damn, especially considering what they did to you, because if they did, they wouldn't have deceived you
Second - you will not get to die from the flames right away, plus there will be attempts to save you, you'll just die a slow miserable death, wounds that will keep leaking, hurt like hell and the sorts.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Be a shame if something happened to the house.

lol good one mate.

ou will not get to die from the flames right away, plus there will be attempts to save you, you'll just die a slow miserable death, wounds that will keep leaking, hurt like hell and the sorts.

i know that sounds terrible, but i can make sure no one helps.

 

[Cathy Ames]

I totally agree with everything Nessie said. Especially about this part

Your parents, however, if they are still alive and are decent people that care about you, will be the ones who will be absolutely shocked and devastated by your gruesome death. Your pain will hit them much, much harder than your extended family.
People hurt each other in awful ways and can be shockingly callous. I understand how it can break your heart into a million pieces. I'm sorry this happened to you and your parents. It looks like you care about your mom and dad a great deal, which is why you are so angry now. And I understand that getting those money and buying your mom and dad a nice house might not be a possibility for you. But if you stick around there are many things you can do to make the lives of your mom and dad better and it will be so much more useful than "avenging" their house in such an awful way. If you have a good relationship with your parents, even just visiting them and talking to them will make their lives less miserable, even if you can't help them financially. If they love you, I'm sure they appreciate you so much more than they appreciated that house.

If you were to ask your parents, I bet they would say they prefer you alive rather than sacrificed in an attempt to make a point or to make people feel bad. This will devastate them and possibly hasten their deaths. It is likely that they will blame THEMSELVES (like, if only we hadn't done this, then our son would still be alive).

If you are doing this for your parents... I think on balance they would consider their lives much worse (RUINED) afterwards, even if a miracle happened and your aunts built them a house and etc.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I totally agree with everything Nessie said. Especially about this part

If you were to ask your parents, I bet they would say they prefer you alive rather than sacrificed in an attempt to make a point or to make people feel bad. This will devastate them and possibly hasten their deaths. It is likely that they will blame THEMSELVES (like, if only we hadn't done this, then our son would still be alive).

If you are doing this for your parents... I think on balance they would consider their lives much worse (RUINED) afterwards even if a miracle happened and your Aunts built them a house and etc.

i guess il have to consider every scenario and rection that can i happen.

but i am very hurt, traumatized and living in bad conditions and frustrated.

 

[Cathy Ames]

i guess il have to consider every scenario and rection that can i happen.

but i am very hurt, traumatized and living in bad conditions and frustrated.

Yes, and that's completely understandable. What happened to you and your parents was awful and there is an additional aspect of injustice and UNFAIRNESS that makes it even worse. Is there anyone you can talk to like a counselor or therapist? Sometimes they can help brainstorm strategies that are helpful for recovering from this type of thing.

I am so sorry that you and your parents are going through these horrible circumstances.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Yes, and that's completely understandable. What happened to you and your parents was awful and there is an additional aspect of injustice and UNFAIRNESS that makes it even worse. Is there anyone you can talk to like a counselor or therapist? Sometimes they can help brainstorm strategies that are helpful for recovering from this type of thing.

I am so sorry that you and your parents are going through these horrible circumstances.

thats a good idea actually, maybe i should speak to a counselor. thank you.

 

[👁️👃👁️]

Kill yourself won't change anything. They'll still have all of the money and they'll still have the nice house they just build.