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LittleMagician

LittleMagician

Experienced
Apr 17, 2025
224
There are no Prince Charming's or fairy god mothers to save you in life and that's the harsh reality. We all are here assuming someone will be there to save us and we think we have the one but in reality they WILL fuck us over. That's how life works. We WILL be fucked over when the other people doesn't have any use for us anymore. People are not magic, there are no saviours. God is not real and life is misery.
 
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Esc9434

Specialist
Feb 25, 2020
301
I'm sorry you feel like this.

I think there are good people in the world. You just have to know where to find them.

I do believe you have to possess some type of potential or a sad story for "some" people to take a chance on you.

So yes, you somewhat need to have the ability to save yourself.

I will say this... People who have experienced trauma at a young age tend to carry it. Bad people pick up on it and exploit.
 
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starboy2k

starboy2k

“I’ve been digging my own grave for years”
May 21, 2025
579
There are no Prince Charming's or fairy god mothers to save you in life and that's the harsh reality. We all are here assuming someone will be there to save us and we think we have the one but in reality they WILL fuck us over. That's how life works. We WILL be fucked over when the other people doesn't have any use for us anymore. People are not magic, there are no saviours. God is not real and life is misery.
I repeat stuff like this to myself all the time. Mostly because it's true and it really motivates me to ctb easier. ♥️
 
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Average Joe

Average Joe

Forsaken One
Nov 5, 2019
419
The truth is, nobody can help us but ourselves. Sure people can listen or offer some basic advice, but it's up to us to save ourselves.
For example, if you wanted someone to help you walk 100 miles. I couldn't do that for you, but I could maybe help you prepare for the walk with some motivation, some water or even choose a route. But if you don't want to actually walk those 100 miles then nothing will change.

I would slightly disagree with not every one will fuck you over, many people will but not all. I guess that's a big challenge that life throws at us, trying to find the people that will stick by you even when you have nothing to offer to the world.
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Illuminated
May 10, 2025
3,511
the reaper will save us 🤍
 
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_Minsk

_Minsk

death: the cure for life
Dec 9, 2019
1,141
thats the sad reality
 
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offbalance

All I want is peace
Dec 16, 2021
330
yeah, I mean loved ones can save you for a while but like others have said you have to save yourself at the end of the day. And if you can't, well…
 
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LittleMagician

LittleMagician

Experienced
Apr 17, 2025
224
yeah, I mean loved ones can save you for a while but like others have said you have to save yourself at the end of the day. And if you can't, well…
If loved ones could really save you why do you still have the urge to wanna ctb? If they were really saviours you wouldn't have those urges to begin with. Yes my mum loves me but her selfish decision to create me has left me in dire pain. Love doesn't save.
 
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VoidButterfly

VoidButterfly

Flitterby
May 17, 2025
148
It's true. Other people might be able to help, advise, or support, but ultimately no-one is coming to save you. You gotta do that yourself.
 
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Dejected 55

Visionary
May 7, 2025
2,866
When I was a kid, adults would always say that bad kids grow up and learn to be better. First problem with that is, why do bad kids get a pass for being bad so easily? Good kids and bad kids who "learn" one day become equals even though the good kid never hurt anybody before? And then, do bad kids really grow up?

I'm not talking about kids who make mistakes... honest mistakes... and who learn and mature and apologize when necessary. I'm talking about kids who hurt on purpose, knowing they are hurting others, and knowing they don't like to be hurt themselves. I don't think those kids do grow up... they just learn they can get away with it.

So, I'm not sure most people are good. I'm willing to concede good people exist. I'm just not that sure society rewards good people so they flourish. And then there are some good people who become so frustrated that they just decide to start being bad because it doesn't matter. Life can ruin good people who are constantly shit on... and that is tragic, but now they are bad people too.

IF society and evolution encouraged good over bad, then bad would be a rarity and most people would be happy and helpful to others. The fact that is not the case, means inherently that we are not good, because we designed a society that doesn't reward and encourage good behavior on average.
 
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TheDevilsAngel

TheDevilsAngel

LetMeFree (I'll never be free)
Apr 22, 2019
852
There are no Prince Charming's or fairy god mothers to save you in life and that's the harsh reality. We all are here assuming someone will be there to save us and we think we have the one but in reality they WILL fuck us over. That's how life works. We WILL be fucked over when the other people doesn't have any use for us anymore. People are not magic, there are no saviours. God is not real and life is misery.
I couldn't of said any of that better!!, I totally agree with you. I was so silly to think it would of been different last time...same story all the time ..

Sending 🫂 🫂
 
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rowcrumble22

Member
Apr 25, 2025
16
There are no Prince Charming's or fairy god mothers to save you in life and that's the harsh reality. We all are here assuming someone will be there to save us and we think we have the one but in reality they WILL fuck us over. That's how life works. We WILL be fucked over when the other people doesn't have any use for us anymore. People are not magic, there are no saviours. God is not real and life is misery.
thats true but i was never given the choice to accept pain and im still mostly healthy i think. i dont wanna say i am completely because i know god is cruel! but what im trying to say is we never have a choice for anything but its nice to experience it all. doesnt matter if its all chemicals to me its nice to be human sometimes despite all the death we cause
 
Griever

Griever

SN
May 1, 2025
460
I can't even save myself
 
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pthnrdnojvsc

pthnrdnojvsc

Extreme Pain is much worse than people know
Aug 12, 2019
4,370
the only way someone could help me is help me with my suicide. but they made it a crime to pay someone to help you with suicide.

and they have almost every human thinking it's immoral to help someone else with suicide . how can it be immoral to help a person escape extreme suffering ?

D from N from D could have helped me with suicide because he sold Nembutal online from 2008 to early 2022. but they put D in prison.
 
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mariannelle

mariannelle

Member
May 9, 2025
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people are there to help you save yourself.
 
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Emerita

Emerita

the look of death
Jan 16, 2025
309
I don't want to be saved and I'm not waiting to be saved I want to be dead
 
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Douggy82

Experienced
Nov 4, 2024
283
yup....I need to accelerate my timeline. The only hope is false hope.
 
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bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
2,340
People are here to take the bus. They are not here hoping anyone will save them. Everyone is self absorbed with their own drama. So you can't blame anyone else either.
 
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uchuunekoko

uchuunekoko

6.4311
Feb 23, 2025
52
I still believe someone like that will come along; it's very naive, but the idea of it makes me feel a little less miserable
 
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-nobodyknows-

-nobodyknows-

I will face my fate.
Jun 16, 2024
798
I really hope this is not true…
 
cciro

cciro

girl (in development)
May 16, 2025
57
yeah. Gave up on other people saving me ages ago. You really have to do it yourself. I really tried for years but I gave up on that too a while ago.
I know god isn't real, but they're the only thing left i guess. Maybe a miracle happens. Not holding my breath.
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Douggy82

Experienced
Nov 4, 2024
283
There are no Prince Charming's or fairy god mothers to save you in life and that's the harsh reality. We all are here assuming someone will be there to save us and we think we have the one but in reality they WILL fuck us over. That's how life works. We WILL be fucked over when the other people doesn't have any use for us anymore. People are not magic, there are no saviours. God is not real and life is misery.
Yup.
There is no one trying to help you.
There are MANY people trying to hurt you.
Pretty f'd up.
 
divinemistress87

divinemistress87

Angelic
Jan 1, 2024
4,933
Harsh reality. I wanted to believe their was a deity out there that could help me but it was all fake. Some people can help give us guidance but we are on our own when it comes down to it and Im to tired to care anymore. Everyone is just trying to survive so we shouldnt rely on other people
 
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Douggy82

Experienced
Nov 4, 2024
283
yeah. Gave up on other people saving me ages ago. You really have to do it yourself. I really tried for years but I gave up on that too a while ago.
I know god isn't real, but they're the only thing left i guess. Maybe a miracle happens. Not holding my breath.
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Sad part for me is that I DID help myself. Then, a bunch of satanic a holes destroyed my life on purpose.
 
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Britney Spears

Britney Spears

toxic
Jan 4, 2025
542
My salvation depends on me, and it's either the CTB or ending up in a psychiatric hospital suffering for the rest of my life. It's not my fault I'm sick and that an illness has completely ruined my life; unfortunately, those are my only options
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Visionary
May 7, 2025
2,866
There is never anyone to save us... but there will always be a few who stand in your way and a lot more who will sit idly by and watch you drift into despair.
 
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