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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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I currently try to live without the addictive medication. And I barely slept the two last days because of it. Today I take it again. I am switching between manic, psychotic and depressive symptoms way too often within the day. It feels pretty fucked up and I am scared to relapse.

Honestly if I relapse then roundabout 2 years extreme psychosomatic pain will await me. And honestly it is just not worth to endure that once again. My life is a mess. I have very good grades in college but this is worth nothing because I cannot hold a job. I am mentally extremely fragile. I think poverty will drive me to commit suicide. The rest of my family lives in a dream world and I just let them. Sooner or later they will realize how severely fucked we are. Especially financially.
I have a huge desire for a partner. Though I become psychotic even when I only think about girls I would like to approach. And honestly in this instance it has become way worse within the last years. (not better)

I think for happiness (or at least surviving) a life should be built on many pillars. And my life barely has such. The lattest point when I will kill myself is when my parents die. I am way too fragile to manage my life on my own. Without the support I will kill myself pretty quickly. Two therapists of mine came to the same conclusion. So the financials are fucked. I will probably never have a girlfriend. These two are like death sentences but it comes way worse.

My mental health is a mess. I have bipolar, had psychosis, my nervous system is deeply fucked, I have anxiety and OCD. My consciousness is just a torturing machine. Some years ago I was in a mental hospital after my second psychosis. I was acute suicidal. After approaching methods I became scared and wanted to give life another shot. I promised myself not to give up already.

Within the years I tried so much shit. And like 90% failed. The situation is so fucking desperate. My attempts to get a gf always end that I humiliate myself. College is so ridiculous. People admire my stamina and intelligence in college. It is all fake. I am an overachiever. On the inside I feel nightmarish.

I barely have any reasons not to kill myself if I relapse. My friends are the greatest gift I received in my life. Though I don't want to live solely for the purpose to do it for others. It is shocking how early I totally collapsed when I tried to work. I am pretty sure I won't be able to hold a job. Approaching women often ends up with getting psychotic symptoms and everything backfires.

My situation is hopeless. I will fight till I collapse but there is not anything that keeps me going beyond that. The current life quality that I have is the best within the last 5 years and I still hate my life so fucking much. My "life quality" is a joke and the worst is yet to come.

I am just so sick of it. In case I relapse I might reach a new level of my suicidality. So far I communicated my suicidality to my family or therapists. But I don't want to endure all of this once again. I was 7 times in clinics during the 8 years. I have tried psychotherapy 3 times and I tried so fucking much medication. Of course my requests for assisted suicide are rejected from all psychiatrists to whom I talked so far.

I think I reach a point where talking about suicide is not enough for me anymore. I suffer a lot currently. I have to shield my mom of that because she had a stroke recently. I think in case I relapse I will try to hide my pain from them while planning my suicide. I hope I still can postpone that. But in case I relapse I try to kill myself with SN. It will be pretty difficult but the urge to do it will be huge. I don't see any real rational and substantial reasons not do it. My future prospects are horrendous. Therapists already gave me up. And it is true I am lost. I cannot win this game anymore. Everything was rigged against me right in front of the start. I don't really regret anything. I could not do anything against the child abuse from my mom. And then I got bullied in school because the domestic violence made me a mess.

The society or at least a huge part of the elite deny that cases like mine exist. Things that should not be such a cruel fate must not exist. Though they make everything worse because people like me have to choose violent or unsafe methods. It is all so cruel.

I am so fucking scared about the insane pain that awaits me after a relapse. That was way worse than death. I wish there was a way for me to live. I would even take a mediocre life. Though my life is a hellhole. And I just cannot endure that way longer.

As I said I try to postpone that hell breaks loose. But it is only a matter of time that it will all crash eventually...
 
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Zaphkiel

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May 13, 2023
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Hello.

As I am not versed in what you are going through I can only say I'm sorry you are going through that.

I am divorcing at the moment and it's the toughest moment of my life. Everything we built together is getting unbuilt every passing minutes and I basically have no friends.

But one of the people I talk to sometimes, wich has a mental disorder, live alone yada yada told me that the first step he made to be in peace was living for himself.

You are graced with good friend if I read correctly and good friends stay. Love is nice while it last and nothing last forever so in a sense, if we are trying to see the glass half full, you have something most people don't.

I have bodily health issues but I know nothing about mental issue so I can't help and I'm sorry. Perhaps moving to another part of town, far from the source of the problem but still in reach of the friends, with other therapist and job opportunity could help?


In any case the choice is yours and I respect it, I can't blame you because to be honest, my exit door is basically thought of and it's just a matter of opportunity to open it or not.

I wish you the best. Sorry to not be of help.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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It really does sound so horrible what you have to endure, existence certainly is so torturous, it's certainly such a hellish world we exist in where despite the fact that there's so meaningless and unnecessary suffering, suicide still isn't accepted as a valid option. But anyway I wish you the best.
 
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Readytogo246

Student
Jun 4, 2023
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Sounds like everyday is torturous and hard. This life can be hell sometimes. Sorry it's so tough for you right now.
 
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Ultracheese

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Dec 1, 2022
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I'm sorry you're hurting so much. It sounds really frustrating that you're the only one who will acknowledge your family's dire financial situation. I'm sorry about your mother too. It's awful how she hurt you so much, but I can see you still care about her a lot, and I understand having a lot of mixed feelings about an abuser. You're one of my favorite people on this site, and I wish you peace with whatever you decide.
 
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