BerryCakes
Local Case Study
- Sep 20, 2020
- 94
Context: I'm homeless and currently staying at a shelter.
So! Today, my shelter, which primarily serves women, and has a overcrowded dorm where beds are right next to each other and there's zero privacy, decided it'd be a swell idea to let in some 16-year-old boy who's probably about six feet tall. Wonderful, just wonderful. As if being in a shelter doesn't already feel threatening enough as it is.
Look, I get that he's probably going through a hard time. I do! I really do. But if you want to keep a homeless family together, maybe! Just maybe! They should be put in one that focuses on families? That's mixed gendered and has different spaces for men and women? That has different rooms for each tenant? It's not like they don't exist! They do!
Males are stronger than females! Who fucking knew? Apparently, neither of the social workers I talked to! They acted like I was out of my fucking mind for having an issue. This one in particular kept saying "he's a wittle boi :c" when the dude fucking towers over LITERALLY EVERYONE there. 16-year-olds aren't children. At least not physically. Holy Hell.
Now I'm having to ask to move somewhere else. Even better, when I talked about potentially finding a pet-friendly shelter so that I can take the cat with me, this one woman tried to claim it was the shelter's cat. First of all, I was given permission by other staff to take her. Second of all, this cat was fucking chewing its skin off due to the amount of fleas and other parasites on it until I spent nearly $100 on meds for her. I mean! If you want to claim the cat is yours, then go ahead, because I'll be more than happy to get you investigated for animal abuse/neglect! You won't even give the damn thing a cat house to sleep in! You won't even give it food! Luckily, the worker could tell I would raise Hell over this cat, so they gave up, but FUCK. I can't believe this.
Just a word to anyone else out there struggling with poverty or homelessness: DON'T let social workers bully you, make you feel spoiled, or make you feel insane, because trust me, THEY WILL TRY if they think it'll make you shut up. You have to fight for yourself and anybody you love, because if you don't, you'll end up dead or worse. Don't take shit from these people.
So! Today, my shelter, which primarily serves women, and has a overcrowded dorm where beds are right next to each other and there's zero privacy, decided it'd be a swell idea to let in some 16-year-old boy who's probably about six feet tall. Wonderful, just wonderful. As if being in a shelter doesn't already feel threatening enough as it is.
Look, I get that he's probably going through a hard time. I do! I really do. But if you want to keep a homeless family together, maybe! Just maybe! They should be put in one that focuses on families? That's mixed gendered and has different spaces for men and women? That has different rooms for each tenant? It's not like they don't exist! They do!
Males are stronger than females! Who fucking knew? Apparently, neither of the social workers I talked to! They acted like I was out of my fucking mind for having an issue. This one in particular kept saying "he's a wittle boi :c" when the dude fucking towers over LITERALLY EVERYONE there. 16-year-olds aren't children. At least not physically. Holy Hell.
Now I'm having to ask to move somewhere else. Even better, when I talked about potentially finding a pet-friendly shelter so that I can take the cat with me, this one woman tried to claim it was the shelter's cat. First of all, I was given permission by other staff to take her. Second of all, this cat was fucking chewing its skin off due to the amount of fleas and other parasites on it until I spent nearly $100 on meds for her. I mean! If you want to claim the cat is yours, then go ahead, because I'll be more than happy to get you investigated for animal abuse/neglect! You won't even give the damn thing a cat house to sleep in! You won't even give it food! Luckily, the worker could tell I would raise Hell over this cat, so they gave up, but FUCK. I can't believe this.
Just a word to anyone else out there struggling with poverty or homelessness: DON'T let social workers bully you, make you feel spoiled, or make you feel insane, because trust me, THEY WILL TRY if they think it'll make you shut up. You have to fight for yourself and anybody you love, because if you don't, you'll end up dead or worse. Don't take shit from these people.
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