Squiddy
Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
- Sep 4, 2019
- 5,903
I think it's curry chicken tonightYou may turn into a chicken before I do @Squiddy!
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Different people interact differently with the forum, depending on how they feel. There's a public chat room, private chat, private messages, specific threads on the open forum and more general threads too. You can also post on your own profile and on other people's profiles too (though for some reason I can't atm).
Yes, it is kind of fragmented but such is the nature of the beast. I think people tend to feel more connected as they get to know others with whom their core beliefs and attitudes align.done my meeting, back at home! Got some beer on my way back
The forum design is kind of scattered IMO so you have to find the pockets where there's an existing community who will welcome. I also didn't really feel connected to this place until i came to kitchen sink and found these lovely folks.
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Lady Lazarus 2020
Student
- Jan 25, 2020
- 144
Thanks for the advice and glad you can relate. It is scattered, isn't it? Glad I came to the Kitchen Sink today. I'm beginning to feel connected!done my meeting, back at home! Got some beer on my way back
The forum design is kind of scattered IMO so you have to find the pockets where there's an existing community who will welcome. I also didn't really feel connected to this place until i came to kitchen sink and found these lovely folks.
Mmm... do you think it would be appropriate to post in off topic asking for plumbing advice? There are SO Many people on here someone has to be a plumber.
Jean4
Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
- Apr 28, 2019
- 7,557
I'm going out for the first time on Tuesday. It's boob squeeze day!!!
Can't hurt.
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
Is it bad I like mammograms? Like love them? like really love them? like.... way too much? Like tell them they can do it more if need be?
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
I only came on here last October and I can tell you it feels to me like the entire atmosphere of the board has changed in just those few months. I think it's because a lot of people who were here then have left in one way or another. It felt different when Stan & BPD_LE & others were here. I miss them, as I know lots of people on here do.
Now it seems there's a whole new group of people on the board and a lot of them I can't seem to relate to. And a lot of them come through here so quickly that you don't even have a chance to get to know them. They show up & a week later, they have a goodbye thread, which I don't understand. How can you only spend a week researching and then make a goodbye thread? I know some people are lurkers and they come on here only after they found their method and so forth, but some people I don't even know who they are until I see their goodbye thread.
departing
Enlightened
- Jul 5, 2019
- 1,502
Jean4
Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
- Apr 28, 2019
- 7,557
And a lot are fake. ;)I only came on here last October and I can tell you it feels to me like the entire atmosphere of the board has changed in just those few months. I think it's because a lot of people who were here then have left in one way or another. It felt different when Stan & BPD_LE & others were here. I miss them, as I know lots of people on here do.
Now it seems there's a whole new group of people on the board and a lot of them I can't seem to relate to. And a lot of them come through here so quickly that you don't even have a chance to get to know them. They show up & a week later, they have a goodbye thread, which I don't understand. How can you only spend a week researching and then make a goodbye thread? I know some people are lurkers and they come on here only after they found their method and so forth, but some people I don't even know who they are until I see their goodbye thread.
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
Yeah, and I admit, originally if things hadn't been like a find a method, it needing things, I would've been a here-gone within a week... but things changed...I only came on here last October and I can tell you it feels to me like the entire atmosphere of the board has changed in just those few months. I think it's because a lot of people who were here then have left in one way or another. It felt different when Stan & BPD_LE & others were here. I miss them, as I know lots of people on here do.
Now it seems there's a whole new group of people on the board and a lot of them I can't seem to relate to. And a lot of them come through here so quickly that you don't even have a chance to get to know them. They show up & a week later, they have a goodbye thread, which I don't understand. How can you only spend a week researching and then make a goodbye thread? I know some people are lurkers and they come on here only after they found their method and so forth, but some people I don't even know who they are until I see their goodbye thread.
Kind of glad actually. Even if not planning on it. At least I met people that regardless makes things a bit nicer.
and as @Jean4 said, some are fake, but still, just going with the assumption they aren't all.
departing
Enlightened
- Jul 5, 2019
- 1,502
That's a problem anywhere. There are always fakes... It's a near given.
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
What is it with all the plumbing problems?! I just had a plumber at my house earlier this week. @Jean4 had plumbing problems, and there was someone else on here that had plumbing problems too though I can't remember who it is right now. What's up with that?!
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
Like others have said... wouldn't hurt... it's off topic.. someone might have an idea, retired, or even know one or be able to direct you.
departing
Enlightened
- Jul 5, 2019
- 1,502
I had a plumber over (twice) a few weeks ago. When it rains, it pours!
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
Is there an evil gremlin of some kind going around messing with all of our plumbing?!
departing
Enlightened
- Jul 5, 2019
- 1,502
There might be... I'm not sure what else to think!Is there an evil gremlin of some kind going around messing with all of our plumbing?!
:) to be honest i am also pretty new here, but everyone in this thread seems nice. i'll ask people questions about themselves and they're usually very open and friendly.
Which brings me to my next point - what brings you to SS? what else can you tell us about yourself.
I miss them too. A lot. We had fun.I only came on here last October and I can tell you it feels to me like the entire atmosphere of the board has changed in just those few months. I think it's because a lot of people who were here then have left in one way or another. It felt different when Stan & BPD_LE & others were here. I miss them, as I know lots of people on here do.
Now it seems there's a whole new group of people on the board and a lot of them I can't seem to relate to. And a lot of them come through here so quickly that you don't even have a chance to get to know them. They show up & a week later, they have a goodbye thread, which I don't understand. How can you only spend a week researching and then make a goodbye thread? I know some people are lurkers and they come on here only after they found their method and so forth, but some people I don't even know who they are until I see their goodbye thread.
I've found it hard to connect to others too after everything changed. But I'm trying. I believe BPD_LE would want me to try.
People are on here for different reasons and even those reasons change overtime. I came here to learn how to kill myself. I lurked and joined to ask specific questions. Then went away as my life imploded. Then came back as it imploded even further. I made friends, lost them, made more, lost them too. It all ebbs and flows.
Some people stick around awhile for support or socialisation. Some learn what they need, get support and then go.
Personally, I hate seeing all the pain and suffering. I know what it's like to have no one listen so ss is great to be listened to. I love hearing people's opinions on stuff and I enjoy having my views challenged.
I never, ever imagined I'd end up here after all my travels and adventures. Such an odd place. A weird microcosm of the world with most of its delusions stripped away.
I...really. ..wouldn't know...being of the male side of the species...er...
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
A weird microcosm of the world with most of its delusions stripped away.
That's a perfect description of this place. I would really hope at some point in the future the creators and moderators of this place are going to be viewed as visionaries and pioneers because I think that's what they are. They've given a community of people who had no voice and nowhere to turn a place to go to and express themselves without fear of reprisal. I can't imagine anything more deserving of an award than that. For all the lipservice a lot of people in the real world pay to giving voice to the voiceless, there are still many groups that are shunned and have no voice. This is one of those groups that the real world just doesn't even have any interest in giving a voice to.
I think we need a plumber I'll post when I cba but not tonight, as I'm practically in standby mode.
Squiddy
Here Lies My Hopes And Dreams
- Sep 4, 2019
- 5,903
The curry chicken smells pretty good
That's very true. But I can appreciate the difficulty they have and why it's not talked about. The perception is that talking about suicide normalises it and can make some more likely to attempt. So it is suppressed. I don't think it's that straightforward but I can understand the fear over just how to deal with something that by definition, is a situation where people are failing to cope.
do you know what japanese people call curry rice?
Ka-Re Rai-Su
i'm not making a racist joke, in japanese script it is カレーライス and you can plug that into google translate to see for yourself.
Ka-Re Rai-Su
i'm not making a racist joke, in japanese script it is カレーライス and you can plug that into google translate to see for yourself.
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
I don't like curry. So I guess tonight you won't be tempting me.
Jean4
Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
- Apr 28, 2019
- 7,557
I don't like going out of the house. Don't mind the boob squeeze.
That's pretty interesting. Do you have a sense of the kinds of things you feel like you can't relate to them about?
I also have similar feelings but i'm curious what yours are.
BlueWidow
Visionary
- Oct 6, 2019
- 2,179
I HATE that part. Apparently, I have very tender breasts and I hate it when they squeeze them between those plates. Plus they always make you hold your breath for a really long time. I just hate the whole process. I'd rather get breast cancer at this point.
I think the last mammogram I got was in 2018 and that was after not getting one for several years, even though breast cancer runs in my family and killed my mom and my sister. And apparently one of my other sisters had it when she died, though that's not what killed her. Her car got slammed into by a semi. She died instantly.
Carina
Angelic
- Dec 22, 2019
- 4,005
What's odd is I just kinda naturally just ended up in this group... without even looking or trying. I have no clue how it happened!
Wait.. maybe I do... chance of a pm sent to me, that I was too afraid to send a pm to them first.
wait, hold breath for a long time? I only have to hold it for a short time, longer now that it's mandatory 3d. takes longer for positioning than the actual thing itself.
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You guys are kind of hard to miss, because there are ALWAYS new posts in here lol.
