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pony No.2

pony No.2

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Oct 22, 2024
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Don't you think it's extremely unfair that someone can do things to you, or say things to you, that'll make you feel awful about yourself, but will face little to no consequences for their actions. Unlike you, if you decide on how to process that abuse and how to cope with it, you're locked away and your voice is ignored for "your safety" when what they're doing to you is emotionally scarring and will cause distrust and more stress. You'll face consequences for something that you were driven to do by another person, but that person who's the root of it faces no karma or not even legal trouble.
They'll prosecute the person who responds to their trauma in different ways that doesn't interfere with anyone else, but not the person who caused you to have negative thoughts or a poor self image and outlook. Which is ultimately unfair, that person should be involuntarily committed for being a bully and causing someone to hate themselves and possibly take their own life or self harm. Or for just making someone else's life a living hell.

Just like how my mom can verbally abuse me and emotionally neglect me from a young age up until I'm an adult, yet I'm locked up for coping with that trauma in the only way I know how and the only way that worked for me. While she faces no jail time or consequences. Ridiculous and so unfair. I thought about getting her involuntarily committed for what she put me through and the things she caused me to develop.

I don't think anyone can fathom just how much of a vile human you have to be to cause someone, let alone your OWN CHILD, to develop odd behaviors or various coping methods, healthy or unhealthy. She's a horrible person and doesn't see it at all, she'll never face consequences and that's such bullshit.

The system is a joke, I personally think they shouldn't be involuntarily commiting anyone against their will unless they're in psychosis or a danger to others. If that person is suicidal or self harming then they should offer as much support as possible and let them choose, if not then let them be. Sometimes they do more harm than good regardless of their intentions. I'm proof of that. Sorry for the long post, I'm really stressed lately and I have no one else to vent to.
 
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Fadenself00_

Fadenself00_

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Sep 21, 2025
259
100%, yes!
The system makes it very easy to shut down victims of abuse.
It's like prison (or worse if you're drugged against your will), and without any due legal process.

Most workers/nurses/doctors in those wards are very abusive, ignorant, ableistic, stupid, and should not be given even a fraction of the power they currently have.
 
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