MeltingHeart
Visionary
- Sep 9, 2019
- 2,151
Do people believe that if you reallly wanted to ctb so desperately (those that want to with urgency)- you would have done so already? I have been told this by so many people - my 'care co-ordinators' my so called 'family'- i.e the person that found and took my SN away (whilst also giving me tips on less offensive to others ways to kill myself) -the only method I felt comfortable with - also now repeatedly taunts me with that retort-whilst also guilt tripping & attacking me verbally about how selfish and awful it would be for whomever had to discover my body (which of course I agree with to an extent), of course I have the innnate human congitive dissonance of not wanting to die -despite how little I want to live - in the sense that it goes against human nature- and also prior to my breakdown -I of course had hopes and dreams for living an even vaguely nice life- however I do not agree with their proposal that I dont really want to die -or I would have already- im just too damn scared - i tried daily for months for hours on end to try to hang myself- ive been to beachy head-i took a huge mixed dose of anti-ds, paracetamol & alcohol , i leaned out of windows of high buildings, stood at edge of train platform etc etc - i ordered the SN once i learnt about that (and am most despairing since it had gone and having to think back to other methods again). I have also heard the concept of - when the will to die (over that to live) becomes strong enough-you will be able to over come SI - i cant help but disagree- i am sure many people exist in states of severe mental or physical pain for many years -even those that have no family- but they simply can not do the act itself- for what ever reason-even though they very strongly would like to end their existence. I would be euthanised tomo if i could. Therefore I believe it is a fallacy to say 'if you really wanted to die - you would have already' im just really really scared- i dont know what of - i dont believe in heaven or hell- but im just scared of the dying process-even though everyday life for me is a kind of living mental hell.
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