Venting Stuff that people say to gaslight you when you tell them that you're ugly

[stepanch1k]

"you just have to be confident", "you have body dysmorphia", "looks don't matter that much anyways", quite a personal one for me: "Don't drag yourself down" (this one haunts me to this day), "just get a haircut", "looks attract, personality keeps", "get rid of that negative mindset", "don't worry about it", "you're not even that ugly", "only superficial people care about that stuff"
I think you get the idea, you can add more in the comments, it's just so disappointing to hear stuff like this being said by the people who you believe are closest to you, really reminds you that you're all alone in this world. Brutal. One of the things that pull me closer and closer to ctb.

 

[camusfan_ig]

It really does suck. They make you feel crazy for even feeling that way. Like,, ive got a mirror lol i can look at myself and know I will never be pretty

 

[MyMomWasMyLife]

What are some acceptable things to say, in your opinion?

 

[stepanch1k]

Tell the truth, agree with the person, but don't say it in an insulting way rather try to make it sound more like a fact

 

[uklad38]

People that say looks don't matter that much, are people that look good!

 

[extremelyugly]

Cannot agree more. Then when you go outside and see and hear how they act and what they say all those gaslighting attempts get disproven in the most blatant way possible, but only to ourselves, because even if we were alongside someone else who accepted this, truth is it those negative things would get past by them because they're not used at all of that happening to them, so they could really honestly think we're overthinking it, because for their reality, it's probably true.

 

[aceHardlight]

Blackpill is brutal