Someone Here Used Me...

[yuzenda]

Have you heard that song: "Send in the Clowns" by Frank Sinatra? "Isn't it rich, are we a pair? Me here at last on the ground, and you in mid-air. Send in the clowns..." Anyways, I'm still really hurt by this especially since they wanted to do a suicide pact and told me all this stuff but cheated on me with other guys here. Let them talk about creampieing in her and she would like the comments, let other guys make fun of me and would gaslight me when I felt insecure about it. This person didn't care about me or my will to die. Idk.

I feel like such a loser.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I'm sorry for how somebody here used you. This world is shitty and other humans are shitty. Humans are a plague and I hate other people so much. They make life worse for others and it's just so unfair

 

[Holu]

I do not truly wish violence on anyone, but someone who comes to a place full of destitute, abandoned, and distraught and then proceeds to manipulate and cause pain should probably be shot(in gta). At the very least they do not belong, and I would recommend reaching out to a moderator to have them removed, to prevent further possible harm.

 

[banger12]

I'm so sorry that you were hurt like this. I don't mean to pry, what what is the context of all of this? It seems very strange that something like this would transpire here, given the nature of the website.

But yeah its bizarre and mean spirited behavior and I'm sorry you were treated like that.

 

[Dot]

Have you heard that song: "Send in the Clowns" Frank Sinatra? "Isn't it rich, are we a pair Me here at last on the ground, and you in mid-air. Send in the clowns." Anyways, I'm still really hurt by this especially since they wanted to do a suicide pact and told me all this stuff but cheated on me with other guys here. Let them talk about creampieing in her and she would like the comments, let other guys make fun of me and would gaslight me when I felt insecure about it. This person didn't care about me or my will to die. Idk.

I feel like such a loser.

Rport thm

If thy hrt u thn thy wll hrt othr ppl also

 

[yuzenda]

I'm so sorry that you were hurt like this. I don't mean to pry, what what is the context of all of this? It seems very strange that something like this would transpire here, given the nature of the website.

But yeah its bizarre and mean spirited behavior and I'm sorry you were treated like that.

someone dm'd me on one of my posts and at first i told them to leave me alone but then after being lonely for so long i apologized and we started talking more. especially on discord

 

[eden101]

report

 

[yuzenda]

it feels even worse that i already reported this but the administrator (RainAndSadness) and it seems like their friends with this person and i feel like has it out for me, i just want to be get this off my chest

 

[Holu]

it feels even worse that i already reported this but the administrator (RainAndSadness) is friends with this person and i feel like has it out for me, i just want to be get this off my chest

Report to dot.

Also, provide evidence. Even if action isn't able to be taken I'm certain it will at least cause a discussion between the individual and mods or RnS.

If you're concerned about sharing their private details(with mods), don't be. We are all deserving of forgiveness, but that doesn't mean our actions should be ignored or forgotten.

 

[banger12]

someone dm'd me on one of my posts and at first i told them to leave me alone but then after being lonely for so long i apologized and we started talking more. especially on discord

I'm very sorry this happened to you. I'd report them. Tbh not much you can do on discord unfortunately. I can't help but feel that this is all very odd stuff for a forum like this. At least you're not involved with this person now.

 

[Dot]

Am defntly opn t/ helpng in n.e wy tht slf cn

 

[astr4]

i'm really sorry that this happened to you, it sounds very painful to deal with and you certainly don't deserve any of it.

 

[yuzenda]

i'm really sorry that this happened to you, it sounds very painful to deal with and you certainly don't deserve any of it.

you have no idea how painful it was for me. thank you.

 

[Holu]

I hope action is correctly taken this time. The fact that you mentioned multiple men were involved likely means this individual is abusing them as well, even if not to the same level as you. And the mods or RnS shouldn't defend that behavior if it's occurring or being initiated on this site. Whatever rush they get from the attention, they can get from a place that isn't comprised of people just trying to get a little bit of advice, support, or affection in a time of crisis or great need. This is like stealing from a homeless person to feed yourself. Whatever possible explanation that they could have to defend or explain themselves is null and void due to the location they have chosen. Absolutely disgusting degenerate behavior from them.

 

[yuzenda]

I hope action is correctly taken this time. The fact that you mentioned multiple men were involved likely means this individual is abusing them as well, even if not to the same level as you. And the mods or RnS shouldn't defend that behavior if it's occurring or being initiated on this site. Whatever rush they get from the attention, they can get from a place that isn't comprised of people just trying to get a little bit of advice, support, or affection in a time of crisis or great need. This is like stealing from a homeless person to feed yourself. Whatever possible explanation that could have to defend or explain themselves is null and void due to the location they have chosen. Absolutely disgusting degenerate behavior from them.

what's crazy about what you said is that i actually am homeless
she took a lot of my dignity from me

 

[Holu]

what's crazy about what you said is that i actually am homeless

Ya that person has gotta go. Its beyond horrible behavior in general but there are better places with less ramifications. Kicking people at their lowest is nothing short of an abomination of human morality. Animals have more sympathy.

she took a lot of my dignity from me

She took your time, your affection, and I'm sure a good amount of whatever hope you had. But she didn't take an ounce your dignity. There's no shame in falling victim to manipulation, especially one so malevolent.

 

[sisyphean-nightmare]

This makes me feel both angry and sad for you, I'm sorry. No one deserves being treated like that, let alone anyone who has a (legitimate) reason to be here. I hope this person gets removed from here, this is supposed to be a safe space.

 

[astr4]

There's no shame in falling victim to manipulation, especially one so malevolent.

yes, seconding this sentiment. you have a beautiful soul which is open to love, that's how you got taken advantage of. that's not a bad thing at all, and tells me a lot about how kind a person you are.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

You should report them. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

 

[yuzenda]

thank you all so much for all the support

 

[huzzahhue56]

You should report them. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

as if your not purposely giving me bad advice that could get me killed?

 

[huzzahhue56]

I'm sorry for how somebody here used you. This world is shitty and other humans are shitty. Humans are a plague and I hate other people so much. They make life worse for others and it's just so unfair

look at my posts, there are people purposely giving me bad advice to make me in danger

it feels even worse that i already reported this but the administrator (RainAndSadness) and it seems like their friends with this person and i feel like has it out for me, i just want to be get this off my chest

the amount of opps I have just for calling people out for questionable/morally wrong behaviour/speech is wild. Nobody wants accountability for being shitty, no moral compass on this website.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

look at my posts, there are people purposely giving me bad advice to make me in danger

Sorry but... who are you again? What's the context here?

 

[turbomightbegone]

Sorry but... who are you again? What's the context here?

three guesses, either they're in the wrong thread, trying to make themselves the "centre of attention" [not sure how that'd work here but it's a possibility] or they're the person op was talking about

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Rport thm

If thy hrt u thn thy wll hrt othr ppl also

Playing devil's advocate here. I fail to see what's reportable. A "verbal" agreement between 2 parties that's illegal anyway (suicide pact) and then one party backs out and reneges on the "deal"? I'm sorry, but that's done every day in life. Who knows what the OP might have done to change the other person's mind. It's all one-sided.

 

[Gangrel]

Playing devil's advocate here. I fail to see what's reportable. A "verbal" agreement between 2 parties that's illegal anyway (suicide pact) and then one party backs out and reneges on the "deal"? I'm sorry, but that's done every day in life. Who knows what the OP might have done to change the other person's mind. It's all one-sided.

Also i don't see how cheating can be a bannable offense, we can't ban people for being shitty "partners" lol

 

[derpyderpins]

Have you heard that song: "Send in the Clowns" by Frank Sinatra? "Isn't it rich, are we a pair? Me here at last on the ground, and you in mid-air. Send in the clowns..."

Yeah, love it.

Anyways, I'm still really hurt by this especially since they wanted to do a suicide pact and told me all this stuff but cheated on me with other guys here. Let them talk about creampieing in her and she would like the comments, let other guys make fun of me and would gaslight me when I felt insecure about it. This person didn't care about me or my will to die. Idk.

I feel like such a loser.

Man, I'm really sorry that happened. You're definitely not the loser. Someone who lets people publicly talk about doing stuff like that and who is okay with other's being mean to you sounds like more of a loser, tbh...

People here are hurting and looking for something to cling to, and often they'll pick something/someone awful that seems exciting. I personally don't get wanting to slobber over someone so crass and meritless. [I've seen it where the guy calls the girl latching onto them a racial slur regularly and posts about stuff like following random women IRL to see where they live and "jokes" about considering raping women. Just vile stuff, and that's only the tip of the iceberg, but someone hurting will see it as thrilling, I guess.] On the other hand, I don't get at all getting romantic feelings over an online forum like this and posting such stuff where people can see it in the first place. I do understand trying to connect with people, though.

someone dm'd me on one of my posts and at first i told them to leave me alone but then after being lonely for so long i apologized and we started talking more. especially on discord

I wish I had better advice. People who are in pain aren't always able to consider how others are feeling, so they may get what they can out of the relationship without considering that you were feeling a connection and thought there was trust and caring there. It always will suck to get ditched/betrayed that way. You have to be careful with who you trust but also don't want to just shut out everyone. It's a tough situation.

Also i don't see how cheating can be a bannable offense, we can't ban people for being shitty "partners" lol

Probably talking more about the bullying/sex talk but it seems like it was off-platform.

 

[Hitakiri]

Can you reveal who used you in a private dm to me? I won't say anything or make it known to anyone. I just want to make sure I can avoid being used as well, since I am a hopeless romantic who also frequents chat.

 

[Glenferd666]

Have you heard that song: "Send in the Clowns" by Frank Sinatra? "Isn't it rich, are we a pair? Me here at last on the ground, and you in mid-air. Send in the clowns..." Anyways, I'm still really hurt by this especially since they wanted to do a suicide pact and told me all this stuff but cheated on me with other guys here. Let them talk about creampieing in her and she would like the comments, let other guys make fun of me and would gaslight me when I felt insecure about it. This person didn't care about me or my will to die. Idk.

I feel like such a loser.

Report these people.

I'm sorry they hurt your feelings and made you feel this way. If you ever need to talk, I'm here

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Also i don't see how cheating can be a bannable offense, we can't ban people for being shitty "partners" lol

Totally agree. It sucks and all that, but it's really typical behavior from people - people cheat, steal, lie, etc - that's just life.