Discussion Should you lie about being a Virgin?

[tomz323]

I know this question is a little out there, but just hear me out. If a friend of yours asks if you still are or if you're with a girl do you tell them the truth? Or lie to seem I dunno "cooler"

 

[Empty Smile]

I don't think it matters either way. If they can't accept you for who you are, then are they really a friend?

 

[Sailfisher]

Don't base a relationship of any kind on a lie.

 

[tomz323]

I don't think it matters either way. If they can't accept you for who you are, then are they really a friend?

Good point, friendship is something thats hard to explain. What even really is a friend?

 

[Wayfaerer]

I'd say no but I'd hope they wouldn't ask too soon.

 

[mathieu]

I think it's best to be honest with friends. With a girl however, I might lie and say I'm not a virgin.

 

[noon]

I vote no, don't lie but honestly, I don't really think it matters. or it shouldn't matter to anyone else, anyways. if people think you're lame for being a virgin? uh, I guess that's their issue and not so much yours.

 

[Futility]

Don't lie.
I've been with people who lied and I knew the moment they started to play with me because instead of knowing what they were doing, they were trying to imitate me for guidance.
Just be honest, if they have a good head on their shoulders, they will teach you and be patient with you, but lying will make them disappointed.
Also, sex isn't cool, it actually makes people sound kinda lame using sex as bragging rights.

 

[mynameispaige]

I think it's better to tell the truth. I know the feeling of wanting to lie though. I have lied about never being with anyone to people before so I wouldn't get made fun of. But if they'd judge you for that then they're not worth your friendship. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin no matter what gender or age you are.

 

[azucaramargo]

I don't think it matters either way. If they can't accept you for who you are, then are they really a friend?

Yeah, and ultimately, it's no one else's business. You don't owe anyone a response. If you felt compelled to reply, however, you could have some deflecting comment prepared, "Oh, I don't kiss and tell." Or, "I'm doing just fine in that department, thank you very much."

 

[CFLoser]

Lies will hurt your life more than someone insulting you ever will.

 

[Sweet emotion]

Don't lie. I'm sure there's a good reason why you've never been with anyone. They may find it strange but who cares. If they are your true friends that shouldn't even matter.

 

[Darkhaven]

Well, i would lie but i think that after spending 30 minutes near me they must realise i never kissed a girl let alone fucked one....

 

[Sweet emotion]

Well, i would lie but i think that after spending 30 minutes near me they must realise i never kissed a girl let alone fucked one....

Had sex with one.

 

[AnnonyBox]

My more lewd side makes me think that if they're asking about this stuff, they might want to be not just friends, but friends with benefits, but that's beside the point. In general I would say its better to not lie, if not for any moral reason, for the sake of not wanting to complicate things with your friend, or failing that, for having to invest the effort in maintaining the lie.