Discussion Should people who are CTB have a partner?

[Ameya]

That sounds like a awful question, but would it be fair to the partner they are with?
Bc of leaving behind trauma and such. Is breaking up more fair?
What if the partner knows you'll Ctb one day but still refuses to break up with you?

It's a current struggle for me rn, but I'll leave the discussion completely open for any opinion

 

[FuneralCry]

I would see it as best to try and distance from them if one is planning to ctb, but I just could never understand the whole wish for a partner type thing in the first place especially if someone wants to die as you cannot trust and rely on other people and other people very often just create more suffering. And to answer the 3rd question, none of us here are obligated to continue existing, we all have to die and lose everything someday anyway, if people want to ctb then they should be able to.