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what should I do with ppl around me? I don't want to be dissuaded, but I wish I could say goodbye.
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I just wish this wasn't taboo, i've been in therapy for ten years and I had enough. Wish ppl were like "ok, let's fix your last wishes and then we say goodbye"If your intention is to make a cry for help, then yes. If you wish to ctb, you obviously shouldn't.
Are you ok? do you need SN? ppl feel already sorry for me, I would like to comfort themThat is a lot of wishing, be grateful you have access to SN, many don't. You have to figure out if you actually wanna CTB or only wanna people to feel sorry for you, only one person can answer that.
right? When people are actually set on CTB their biggest fear is that someone finds out and tries to prevent it. If you wish to tell them just out of curiosity is because you want help, which is a good thing, wanting to live is way better.if you want to get help, yes. if you genuinely want to commit, maybe not. unless you plan on getting institutionalized
do you think that it would be bad to share my last moment with someone like on a phone call? I fear it would be cruelif you want to get help, yes. if you genuinely want to commit, maybe not. unless you plan on getting institutionalized
It's not out of curiosity o.o are you familiar with assisted suicide? you are able to say goodbye to your dears.right? When people are actually set on CTB their biggest fear is that someone finds out and tries to prevent it. If you wish to tell them just out of curiosity is because you want help, which is a good thing, wanting to live is way better.
AgreeNo, to me it sounds like a bad idea to be open about plans to die as they can interfere just leading to more suffering, it truly is so dreadful how humans refuse to accept suicide as the very valid personal choice it really is.
i think as long as you dont commit on the phone with them it should be fine? i imagine it would be comforting to talk to your favorite person one last time before you godo you think that it would be bad to share my last moment with someone like on a phone call? I fear it would be cruel
what should I do with ppl around me? I don't want to be dissuaded, but I wish I could say goodbye.
You need to consider two things in particular:what should I do with ppl around me? I don't want to be dissuaded, but I wish I could say goodbye.
I tired to speak about my decision with 2 close friends living in other countries, I talked about assisted suicide so that they think of an hospital setting with doctors approval and their reaction was not supportive. My mother found out about sn, but there's not a lot of information about it in my country, so I laughed it off. Think I'll need some time to low other ppl's guard down, pack all my things and decide how to inform people pre/post. I'm still figuring out what to do with my body. I'm also a no one so on one side I'm like "no need to alert ppl etc" but on the other hand I'm worried about ppl or hmm also how everyone think this website is evil.
Also I have a really weird friendship with a person and I fear they might think they are responsible. I thought this would be easier, my past attempt were more desperate and not planned. @thirdtimesthecharmg @itsalittlecold (or others here) do you care sharing your plan? Or link other ppl's plan if you fear giving too many details online :/
Oh I didn't realize it was the same nickname. I see now. It's difficult to help other ppl online, because one doesn't really know what 's the situation like for the other person. On one hand I want everybody to be able to access SN, but on the other I see that maybe people could be helped in other ways or like in your case, maybe you should live and pay the price by being incarcerated. Taking accountability is a first step, keep going.Context for me is the thread which you noted is rather confusing: https://sanctionedsuicide.site/thre...hadnt-thrown-away-the-sn.168950/#post-2564543
I have no idea what I'm going to do at this point. Going back 'home' to visit briefly with some family and friends. Then probably go back 'home' (two different areas, neither home anymore) to confess and turn myself in.
At some point I'll order more SN. Or maybe I missed my window on that. It's fine either way. My last attempt had a lot of puking (I was using a non-standard method and stopped short) and I am not ready to do that again yet but I suspect that with a greater determination I could do that method successfully; it would just take some time and be quite unpleasant on the way.
Anyhow, sorry, I don't really have anything useful or relevant to you to offer, but you asked and I am in a talkative mood since the attempt.
Oh I didn't realize it was the same nickname. I see now. It's difficult to help other ppl online, because one doesn't really know what 's the situation like for the other person. On one hand I want everybody to be able to access SN, but on the other I see that maybe people could be helped in other ways or like in your case, maybe you should live and pay the price by being incarcerated. Taking accountability is a first step, keep going.
I don't know if SN is the easiest path in your case, I guess it's what is right to me.All good; thanks. I figure I can always use the SN or my backup or etc after I've faced punishment in any and all forms here.
I was trying to take the easy way out and I didn't have the courage for that but all the more reason to at least do this.
Edit: I don't mean any offense to you or anyone else here when I say "easy way out". Just that, in my case, SN is far better than I deserve for what I did.
Yeah, that's absolutely fair.I don't know if SN is the easiest path in your case, I guess it's what is right to me.