Should i meet with my online friends someday?

[RustedNails]

They pose no threat to me and it seems like i'll have to do it someday. The issue is that i look like shit, i talk weird and they can start to ask me things i don't want to answer and this may end the whole friendship

 

[Anonymousa]

Personally you shouldn't do it if you are uncomfortable, especially as you haven't bee comfortable showing what you look like and sound like, but otherwise if you known each other for quite a bit of time and meet in a public area the first time you meet physically go ahead.

 

[RustedNails]

They know what i sound like, but i think my poor expressions and appearance would make it look even worse

Personally you shouldn't do it if you are uncomfortable, especially as you haven't bee comfortable showing what you look like and sound like, but otherwise if you known each other for quite a bit of time and meet in a public area the first time you meet physically go ahead

 

[music]

what's the cause of your 'poor' appearance? is it anything that can be remedied or are you being overly critical of yourself etc

They know what i sound like

if you haven't already, i'd say to consider voice calling them for extended periods to get used to it so that the meetup can feel a bit more natural on that front. i often wasted the whole first days getting comfortable when i met with people because they just felt like strangers. that is just my experience but it would've helped. if possible then try. it was well worth seeing them

 

[RustedNails]

what's the cause of your 'poor' appearance? is it anything that can be remedied or are you being overly critical of yourself etc


if you haven't already, i'd say to consider voice calling them for extended periods to get used to it so that the meetup can feel a bit more natural on that front. i often wasted the whole first days getting comfortable when i met with people because they just felt like strangers. that is just my experience but it would've helped. if possible then try. it was well worth seeing them

I have pimples and yellow teeth