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Lemon Ice Cube

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Jun 9, 2025
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Both probably have their pros and cons but heres some of my background for reference

I live in an apartment with family
There probably are forests available to hang from but I'm not sure if I can do that without trespassing into someone else's property.
I'm also considering dying in a hotel room or smth.

What do you people in the community think is the best?
 
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Worndown

Worndown

Angelic
Mar 21, 2019
4,245
Where any action is taken should match your specific needs.
You need to balance function with privacy, security and as little trauma as possible to those you care about.
 
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sadbh

sadbh

Experienced
Apr 4, 2026
260
I'd vote hotel. It seems like a neutral space and your family won't find your body or interrupt you.
 
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sadbh

sadbh

Experienced
Apr 4, 2026
260
How does one hang themselves in a hotel room?
Those are just the options OP suggested. If it were up to me, I'd recommend a tree in the middle of nowhere.
 
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uklad38

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Mar 27, 2026
209
I'm not sure there'd be many options for partial hanging in a hotel room? I don't think the bars in the wardrobes would be strong enough would they?
 
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Painforever

Member
Feb 15, 2026
51
I'm not sure there'd be many options for partial hanging in a hotel room? I don't think the bars in the wardrobes would be strong enough would they?
Dont people do it off the door handle?
 
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Painforever

Member
Feb 15, 2026
51
Haven't heard of this but will look into that, thanks
Research it before you do it. i cant give you proper advice on it, its just a memory of a video of someone doing it off a door handle.

dont take my advice before doing something like this take more time to research
 
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uklad38

Experienced
Mar 27, 2026
209
Research it before you do it. i cant give you proper advice on it, its just a memory of a video of someone doing it off a door handle.

dont take my advice before doing something like this take more time to research
Yeah I will 100% research, my first attempt didn't go so well due to not enough research so will definitely do some extensive research
 
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soonnotkoei

soonnotkoei

got my foot in the grave
Sep 24, 2024
234
preference. depends on what you value more. i, for example, wouldn't do it at home. i wouldnt want my family finding me dead. but if you do not care, thats fine too.
 
endboss

endboss

Student
Apr 8, 2026
184
I am at the same crossroad. I think I should ctb in the forest, rather than do it home. It is much more stressful though and It takes more planning. But I don't want to spoil our flat with my death body here. Who wants to live in a flat where somebody you love just comitted suicide?
 
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Gotta go

New Member
Apr 19, 2026
3
Thank you that is very helpful as I'm homebound so getting out is difficult. I am physically and mentally incapable so getting out to buy a rope is problematic, do you think a belt or a sheet might work thanks
 

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