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Manfrotto99
Experienced
- Oct 10, 2023
- 210
I'm just curious, how many other people on here who consider themselves short and ugly and feel that its contributed to them ctb?
I realise there are many short and uglies who are happy in life and theres a lot more to it. Being ugly is subjective and there is often some level of body dysmorphia going on.
I hear people say it's superficial and dosnt matter, yet I just feel like the judgements over the years have accumulated and gone much deeper. Many people make up for being small in other ways, having a loud personality, being talented, very attractive etc In my case I could not do this and it's the combination of being short and ugly and quiet with a noticable tremor, that has contributed to my depression.
It seems like I have always gotten the short end of the stick. I've always come across as weak and vulnerable and an easy target. The last to be seen, to be included, to be listened to and chosen. It seems like I've always had to try extra harder than most people just to be noticed and taken seriously and it's exhausting.
I realise there are many short and uglies who are happy in life and theres a lot more to it. Being ugly is subjective and there is often some level of body dysmorphia going on.
I hear people say it's superficial and dosnt matter, yet I just feel like the judgements over the years have accumulated and gone much deeper. Many people make up for being small in other ways, having a loud personality, being talented, very attractive etc In my case I could not do this and it's the combination of being short and ugly and quiet with a noticable tremor, that has contributed to my depression.
It seems like I have always gotten the short end of the stick. I've always come across as weak and vulnerable and an easy target. The last to be seen, to be included, to be listened to and chosen. It seems like I've always had to try extra harder than most people just to be noticed and taken seriously and it's exhausting.
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