Venting She texted me "How I am doing?"

[cyberlordsumit]

After all she put me through. dragging my Emotions through the gutter. Making me a Clown infront of all my "close friends". Making me the coldest and loneliest i have ever felt. And just The Dehumanising of my whole being.

She asks me "How are you doing?"

Well I quit my job, My patt time classes, hardly Talking to anyone, rather no one. Parents think I'm dramatic.
Here I am fucking trying to kill myself, wishing i never existed,
That's how I am doing. What do you want me to say what the fuck m i doing.

I was at peace trying to die and this new pain hurting my chest again..

 

[dieornottodie]

send her a dick pic or if you are a girl send her your terd = poop pic

 

[TheQ22]

It sounds like hoovering mate - tactic used by manipulative people like Narcissists.

Make you life a misery, wreck you emotionally, make you feel worthless and useless, then ditch you to really put you through the wringer...

Then come back and ask how you're doing like they care about you, maybe tell you they miss you, how they realise how great you are, how they have changed.

They want to keep you in a state of confusion and pain because it makes you easier to manipulate - make you feel bad so they feel better.

And if you get back with them because they really do seem to have changed and they really do seem to care - then they really smash you up.

 

[almost_dead]

After all she put me through. dragging my Emotions through the gutter. Making me a Clown infront of all my "close friends". Making me the coldest and loneliest i have ever felt. And just The Dehumanising of my whole being.

She asks me "How are you doing?"

Well I quit my job, My patt time classes, hardly Talking to anyone, rather no one. Parents think I'm dramatic.
Here I am fucking trying to kill myself, wishing i never existed,
That's how I am doing. What do you want me to say what the fuck m i doing.

I was at peace trying to die and this new pain hurting my chest again..

Too relatable . Limerence ? Ex-gf ?

 

[cyberlordsumit]

Ex gf yoi can say

 

[lucid]

I know exactly how you feel. My ex did the same and it completely broke me on the inside for a long time. Even had the fucking audacity to ask me for advice in her new relationship that only began 4 days after we broke it off.
I can't say you'll get over it soon but I can say that she doesn't deserve to be any part of your life anymore and that she should be cut out as best as possible. Don't risk anything she says. I blocked mine on all socials and haven't heard a peep for around 2 years now.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Sounds like hoovering so she can get more of whatever you previously supplied for her.

 

[Grav]

Can you block communication from her?

 

[Smudgedlines]

My twat of an ex did that for 6 months to me. Then I had a wake up moment, cut him off and haven't spoken to him for five years despite bumping into him regularly. We were together 7 years and if he were on fire and I had a glass of water I'd drink it.

 

[TheQ22]

@Smudgedlines - they are truly awful.

 

[Smudgedlines]

@Smudgedlines - they are truly awful.

They literally go from one to the other with no pause, no thought, preferably a nice overlap to hedge their bets.... hideous people

 

[cyberlordsumit]

Update: now she says she won't put any efforts to improve stuff between us. And she is from my close friend circle and they are like engulfed by her charms and mostly either taking her side or telling me to suck it up. It's Bullshit. Everywhere i see there is bullshit cages. It ain't worth living, i have given everything i could, but these asses can't give two proper shits in return. I'd rather die and deprive them the pleasure of people like me and let them see some world for themselves. All the while me keeping some dignity. I don't really care for revenge, But Eternal peace it is. This is hell, All the devils are here.

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

if he were on fire and I had a glass of water I'd drink it.

That's the most logical response. Otherwise you'll get dehydrated from the heat.