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- Jul 1, 2023
- 59
How can I tell you about how I'm feeling when I don't know who I am? I know things about whatever myself is. I have a body that's female, a voice that can say whatever comes to the mind I supposedly inhabit. I have blonde hair, pale skin and my fathers personality. But all of that, all of these things. Are from other people. Nothing about this myself, is myself. Stolen attributes of other people. I imitate the behaviours and mannerism of my peers and alike. Because I don't know my own. Everything about me, isn't me. I don't know who I am. I look in the mirror and I feel nothing towards the thing staring back at me. There's nothing there. It's nothing. There is nothing. I can't be myself if I don't know what myself is. How can I be my own person if I don't know myself?
Ontop of all of this. I fear love. Not in a romantic sense, I've never felt that and never will. I fear the love of my peers and affection of others. I don't know how to deal with it. Overbearing attention. What's there to like about this? This thing that can look at you and think a thousand different things at once, but never open their mouth about it in fear of judgement. I can't find myself. If I were not in this body, I wouldn't be able to be found in a crowd of people. Nothing about me stands out, I have no identifiable features. Nothing about this body, brain, persona and spirit is unique to me. It's all features of others. I've never understood this "person" facade. What even is a person? Who am I? What am I? What am I here for? To spend my entire life in anxiety and worry because I don't know who I am? What even is identity? What am I? Who am I? what's my purpose here? How can I even begin to understand identity, when I can't even get to the stage of understanding it?
Identity is ones self. But I don't know what that self is.
And nobody but me can tell me what it is. So I am stuck.
Ontop of all of this. I fear love. Not in a romantic sense, I've never felt that and never will. I fear the love of my peers and affection of others. I don't know how to deal with it. Overbearing attention. What's there to like about this? This thing that can look at you and think a thousand different things at once, but never open their mouth about it in fear of judgement. I can't find myself. If I were not in this body, I wouldn't be able to be found in a crowd of people. Nothing about me stands out, I have no identifiable features. Nothing about this body, brain, persona and spirit is unique to me. It's all features of others. I've never understood this "person" facade. What even is a person? Who am I? What am I? What am I here for? To spend my entire life in anxiety and worry because I don't know who I am? What even is identity? What am I? Who am I? what's my purpose here? How can I even begin to understand identity, when I can't even get to the stage of understanding it?
Identity is ones self. But I don't know what that self is.
And nobody but me can tell me what it is. So I am stuck.