riamu
walking waste of bandages
- Jan 5, 2023
- 45
i've been holding on for years because of my baby brother - he's 5 years old and i'm 19. he can be an asshole at times, like every kid, but i love him with all my heart and he's what keeps me on this planet. it's selfish but i really don't want him to forget me. i want him to have (hopefully good) memories of his big sister, but i also don't want him to have to face the harsh reality of death at such a young age.
i have no idea what would be best for him. at his age rn my death would probably be confusing but i think soon enough he'd both get over it and forget about my existence entirely, but the selfish part of me doesn't want that. i want him to be able to remember me and appreciate the memories he has with me but also not have the death of his sibling mess him up too badly, but is there even an age where that applies? if anyone has advice, especially regarding an ideal age to ctb, then i'd love to hear it
i have no idea what would be best for him. at his age rn my death would probably be confusing but i think soon enough he'd both get over it and forget about my existence entirely, but the selfish part of me doesn't want that. i want him to be able to remember me and appreciate the memories he has with me but also not have the death of his sibling mess him up too badly, but is there even an age where that applies? if anyone has advice, especially regarding an ideal age to ctb, then i'd love to hear it