Venting Self Confidence CANNOT improve...?

[OhWellDerp321]

I actually fully agree with this, so we are almost entirely in agreement. I don´t even think the efforts parents make are the most important part. I think the parents role model w/o even knowing it. So if the parents are hot & conceited winners then it would be very unlikely for their children to have any serious problems. But if the parents are both losers running away from societies they are failed in, it is extremely unlikely, regardless of what they might try to do about it, that their children would not end up being miserable, destroyed losers whose only relief will be death. Those losers types should not delude themselves into believing they can have children and that things will just work out because they have decent jobs. It won´t work out.

Yeh. I mean we are actually entirely in agreement. Not almost.

I've said this before. So many parents think they can teach their kids to be "better". You cannot teach kids to be "better" when you haven't become better yourself. How will you teach them to be better when you don't know "better" is?
It's like a person that can't quit smoking telling others that they shouldn't smoke.

Lets also not forget that some parents also make kids by accident. The parents may never admit it, but you can always tell.
The parents that always have some sort of resentment towards their kids even from a young age. They probably never wanted kids in the first place, or weren't sure about it.