You are NEVER EVER hated by me. Your 1 word in your post brought extreme sadness to me as no one should ever feel or have to feel that way. I am so sorry if folks, not the lovely SS people, in your life give you less than a resounding lift each and every day.
I was hated by my "parents", they never wanted me, I was always called "the mistake", and I know how darn much it can hurt.
BUT..BUT I consider you a great friend and never let idiots bring you down. I always remember when I was like 10 years old and I would be somewhere and my "dad" wanted to show how much he disliked having to spend money to keep me alive, he would call out to me: "hey mistake" and boy did it hurt, BUT I learned that the world is filled with loving and caring folks and to not let jerks hurt me.
With the last part said, I know what it is like and you have me as a friend, hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder, and you are a bright, loving, caring and awesome soul. All these aspects show up time and time again in your posts that show just what a great person you are.
I have "done that, been there" as far as being disliked/hated and I cherish you and again do not let jerks bring you down.
Have a awesome weekend filled with beautiful blue skies and SS.
Walter