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Congrats on being gay! I've been questioning whether I'm bi or lesbian. I do agree with you on suicide and depression being caused by homophobia. My own mother said some pretty homophobic things directed at me yesterday, which made me cut myself immediately afterwards. I wish homophobia would end. I'm a Christian, and I study theology, and I've gotta say, the Bible never says LGBTQ people are bad (in the original texts, at least). The original Hebrew texts never oppose a consensual, loving homosexual relationship. English translators added homophobic stuff in there that wasn't there originally. People need to stop using religion to justify their homophobia.
Congrats on being bi! I'm very glad you haven't seen anyone homophobic on this forum. I've been a long-time lurker, but recently got an account, and I also haven't seen any homophobic stuff. But I also haven't seen any LGBTQ supporters either, so that's why I asked.
Congrats on being gay! I'm so sorry about that. There will always be a safe space for you here. I'll support you no matter what. Personally, my mom being homophobic is not why I'm suicidal. I've attempted before I even identified as queer. I'm suicidal for lots of different reasons. The homophobia in my family has caused me great distress, but never to that degree. I hope you're able to get away from the homophobic environment and find somewhere supportive.
Congrats on being queer! I think what you are is called a bi-lesbian. I recommend you look into it. It means you only experience one type of attraction with women, and the other type with men. For example, you could experience sexual attraction with women, but romantic attraction only with men. I can't label you, but I recommend you read this: https://queerdom.fandom.com/wiki/Bi-Lesbian. I'm super sorry that the Christian Church was so toxic for you that you had to deconvert. I'm so mad at the Christian church. Their homophobia is pushing people away from Jesus. Don't let the Church represent the religion. If you ever change your mind and decide to come back to Christianity, there are accepting churches out there. God loves gays!
I already responded to Hup Hup.
Congrats on being trans! I think you are a beautiful, genuine woman. I'm so sorry this has made you suicidal. I'm a cisgender woman, so I can't relate to you, but I'm so sorry you feel like this. It really is unfair how society treats trans people. I live in America too, and watching the news makes me even more scared for you guys. I hope America will become more accepting.
Thank you so much for being an ally! There is nothing wrong with being cis or straight, but there is a problem with opposing those who aren't.
Congrats on being bi! Just remember that, you are a part of the LGBTQ community, and you belong in it.
Congrats on being bi/lesbian! Me too! I think you might be a bi-lesbian. It can be someone who is bi, but focuses mainly on their relationship with women or non-men. I can't label you, but I think you should look into it. I recommend you read this: https://queerdom.fandom.com/wiki/Bi-Lesbian. I agree that everyone is so cute and sweet on here. I love how FixThe26 is all like, "Sanctioned Suicide are murderers! They're killing little children!" And they completely ignore posts like this. Also, who said suicide was a bad thing?
I would describe myself as such, but will never bother to transition. What's the point if I'm gonna CTB anyway?
, there is a totally homophobic society here; according to sociologists, only 3% of the population can be classified as LGBT-friendly. It's scary to think how much hatred, bullying and discrimination LGBT people have to experience. Actually, in my entire life, half a century, I have met maybe one or two heterosexuals who are NOT homophobic. When I was young, I just didn't think about it, I myself was a homophobe, like everyone around me. But then I told myself - fuck society, I can think with my own head and retrain myself. Several years ago, I even donated money to charities helping LGBT people. Today, all such organizations in fail state russia are prohibited, even a personal talk between two adults about LGBT is a criminal offense, even just mentioning the abbreviation LGBT is criminally punishable, drawing a rainbow is also criminally punishable. The authorities are holding competitions to kill LGBT people - Project Saw (yes, a real hunt like in Faces of Death). Overall, it's fucked up.
I really don't subscribe to the sexual attraction/romance divide that seems to be all the rage these days. If I want to have sex with someone, I would prefer to date them and have a relationship with them as well. In some circles, that would make me "demisexual" or some crap, but I'm just old-fashioned on this point.
