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Ame
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- Nov 1, 2019
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I have always been hesitant about asking for advice but the guilt and frustration that I have been feeling are enough for me to push through. Since my significant other committed suicide (a little more than a week ago) I've been visibly distraught. My family is concerned (and rightfully so) that I will harm myself and while they haven't taken me to hospital, they insist that I not be left alone. I still live with my family and I am being made to sleep in my sister's room. I also cannot leave my home unless I am accompanied by someone my parents trust. I was wondering how to properly mask my feelings so as to assuage the concerns of my family and regain some freedoms. The sooner I can move about freely, the sooner I get on with my plans for ctbing. I feel badly for burdening them. Constantly worrying that your loved one is in imminent danger is draining (my father hardly sleeps) and I know that my current state has not been pleasant to see either. I want to offer them some calm before the end but I don't want to raise suspicions by suddenly appearing too peaceful.
This will certainly prove to be quite the balancing act, although I am not sure about how to proceed. Any advice would be appreciated.
As a final note, it is worth mentioning that my desire to die is not driven by impulse because of my loss. I have struggled with debilitating mental illness for many years and have been actively suicidal for a while.
This will certainly prove to be quite the balancing act, although I am not sure about how to proceed. Any advice would be appreciated.
As a final note, it is worth mentioning that my desire to die is not driven by impulse because of my loss. I have struggled with debilitating mental illness for many years and have been actively suicidal for a while.
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