Venting random rant but it kinda annoys me that people never use my it/its pronouns

[Awesomefoid67]

like i go by she/it but most people only use she and completely ignore the it part. not everyone ofc but most people. i understand why some are apprehensive to using it but idk i think if the person themselves who uses them says it's alright i don't see where the issue is?? it's not like the pronouns are hurting anyone tbh


most people are either like "erm but it's weird" which like who cares if it's weird, if someone genuinely wanted me to like call them a housefly or something i would do it because that's just basic respect tbh., but if it's not that it's "but it's heckin dehumanising" which like 1. yeah that's the point my gender identity is more complex than just being a person and i also kinda just don't feel fully human/fully like a person which is a core part of my identity which is why i use it/its lmao, and 2. why does it matter if the person themselves says theyre fine with it?
tbh i'm expecting to get alot of hate for this here but idc i need somewhere to rant

 

[GodzillasBiggestFan]

it sucks to have people ignore some of your pronouns, im sorry they do that. i have considered it pronouns myself but most people i know wont even use they for me. i agree, each persons idea of their own pronouns is what should matter. using it pronous for someone who doesnt want that is bad, but if the person wants it then its okay.

 

[Awesomefoid67]

yeah it's really frustrating, i lowkey kinda had a crashout on twitter about it like a few weeks or so ago lmao

 

[GodzillasBiggestFan]

i wish there was more people who could make effort use others pronouns instead of just being judgmental anytime they hear something new.

 

[lahey]

if you go by she/it, wouldnt it make sense for most people to default to she, because its the standard in most scenarios?