electrojellysoup

electrojellysoup

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Apr 19, 2021
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Feeling a little up and down today. I've just made some hot chocolate and am currently hanging out in discord with other cool queers.
 
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Tackingintothewind

Tackingintothewind

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Mar 2, 2021
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I'm ace. I'm unsure if that counts
 
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GenesAndEnvironment

GenesAndEnvironment

Autistic loser
Jan 26, 2021
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I'm trying to become less attracted to women and am not closed to the possibility of dating cute men in a non-sexual way (can't get an erection from other men, but can do hugging and so forth). I'm here, I'm queer, get used to it.
 
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Celerity

Celerity

shape without form, shade without colour
Jan 24, 2021
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I'm lonely. The girl I like won't text me back and I'm having a bit of a middle-school-level breakdown over it.
 
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GenesAndEnvironment

GenesAndEnvironment

Autistic loser
Jan 26, 2021
5,739
I'm lonely. The girl I like won't text me back and I'm having a bit of a middle-school-level breakdown over it.
Happened again, huh? Problem is that she's numb from the countless relationships that she formed in the past. The average normie will have around ten relationships before settling down into an inevitably lacklustre relationship. I've made this analogy before; love is like duct tape, every time you attach and detach it the tape loses adhesiveness.

When you put your fresh duct tape on her, it's very hard and painful to pull off. When she puts hers on you, it will fall off by gravity alone.
 
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Celerity

Celerity

shape without form, shade without colour
Jan 24, 2021
2,733
Happened again, huh? Problem is that she's numb from the countless relationships that she formed in the past. The average normie will have around ten relationships before settling down into an inevitably lacklustre relationship. I've made this analogy before; love is like duct tape, every time you attach and detach it the tape loses adhesiveness.

When you put your fresh duct tape on her, it's very hard and painful to pull off. When she puts hers on you, it will fall off by gravity alone.
Wait - so in this analogy it will be super hard for me to get over her whereas she'll find it easy to get over me?

If that's what you mean, you're probably right. I think about her almost nonstop whereas it seems like she couldn't give much of a shit about me, lol.

**When I put a "lol" at the end, it seems to hurt slightly less, or maybe I just tell myself that.
 
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Tackingintothewind

Tackingintothewind

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Mar 2, 2021
530
Of course!
I often find the community difficult as it can be very over sexualised. Which is something I really just dont understand, but at least they interrogate me less when they find out.
Yay, fellow aroace reporting for duty~!
I'm also aro. My family have finally come to terms with the fact I will never get married. My father begged me for years to give dating another try but... that's not me.
 
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Black Rose Bunny

Black Rose Bunny

I’m having simpsons of mental illness
Jan 29, 2020
116
I'm doing ok today, probably just going to play games and hang out with my dogs
 
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electrojellysoup

electrojellysoup

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Apr 19, 2021
43
Happened again, huh? Problem is that she's numb from the countless relationships that she formed in the past. The average normie will have around ten relationships before settling down into an inevitably lacklustre relationship. I've made this analogy before; love is like duct tape, every time you attach and detach it the tape loses adhesiveness.

When you put your fresh duct tape on her, it's very hard and painful to pull off. When she puts hers on you, it will fall off by gravity alone.
I don't think that's true at all. This sounds very dismissive of polyamorous people and a little slutshamey
 
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motel rooms

motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
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Happened again, huh? Problem is that she's numb from the countless relationships that she formed in the past. The average normie will have around ten relationships before settling down into an inevitably lacklustre relationship. I've made this analogy before; love is like duct tape, every time you attach and detach it the tape loses adhesiveness.

When you put your fresh duct tape on her, it's very hard and painful to pull off. When she puts hers on you, it will fall off by gravity alone.
You guys are all insane for bothering with real people. If you spend enough time watching porn, your brains will reset & you will only be able to get aroused by digital ghosts with perfect faces & bodies who never say no to anything :)) If you're such babies that you need actual affection, get a doggy (a canine, not one of those freaks who wear leather dog masks)
 
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GenesAndEnvironment

GenesAndEnvironment

Autistic loser
Jan 26, 2021
5,739
I don't think that's true at all. This sounds very dismissive of polyamorous people and a little slutshamey
Could be wrong, but it just makes logical sense to me. If you have some studies or pieces of reasoning to prove me wrong I'd be open to reading it.
 
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