I agree with the global family members and tell them. I live in Minnesota, right across the border from you. The Vikings and Twins ring a bell? I have had 2 attempts, I am 65 years young, and I used to feel and think embarrassed and also what people thought of me and my situation. Then I got gall bladder cancer and a year later I was driving down a road going south and a young lad was coming east and he blew through the stop sign and I t- boned him. Now I have 24/7 chronic pain from the car crash. I mentioned these 2 things because now after those life and death brushes, I could care less what anyone thinks. Also I and YOU both have our global family here to help with love, caring, kindness, empathy and SUPPORT. I give you all the peace and love in this world and beyond, and if you have any doubts on your nuclear option, it is not going anywhere. I send you, yes a Gopher fan!! all my love, empathy, understanding, kindness and SUPPORT. Walter