Pro choice feminist mother brutally judges me over being suicidal

[FireFox]

I have never ever in my life met anyone so judgemental and bullying and just pure evil.When I open up online about how I don't want to see another decade I have received judgement or not taken seriously.This encounter happened a while ago but I was the absolute worst ever in my life. The sheer hypocrisy.

The woman who judged me is a privileged woman in her late 30s who has everything she has society conventional beauty, a husband, children and stable life which most people would love to have.She lectured about how I shouldn't talk about killing myself because she has had family members who have died from suicide and even has the audacity to say" I dont want to hear that negative self talk, no no no." She mocked me when I opened up online about the sadness of never being in a relationship and said "a woman doesn't need a man" I hate people like her she has everything she doesn't know what it is like to be rejected all your life by men, to be overlooked because your features are not seem as "pretty" by society and worst of all feel like a total failure while seeing everyone else is doing better than you.

I f*cking do not care how left leaning she is and her pro choice abortion views because she is just as a bad as these religious pro life people she despises so much. Both bad as each other because both love imposing their depraved sense of morality on others and keep acting all holier than thou when actually they are piece of sh*t individuals.

This is what I absoultely hate about society people express shock whenever someone kills themselves and tweet the number of the suicide hotline whenever a celebrity kills themselves but these sameare the people who participate in a system of bullying, excluding and making fun of others who are different to them or have completely different life experiences that are not the norm. What are the hell are people expecting to happen? After all why should a person live in a world where people always judges them and life is not working out for them. Humans we didn't ask to be born so why should we stay in this world we never choose to stay in. Where is our right to choose ?
I feel sorry for her kids having a judgemental mother who judges a suicidal 25 year old. If that woman was my relative I would kill myself too.

 

[Euthanza]

Such people are blinded from realities, they live in bubble which eventually will burst. No one escape from the death whatever lies they offer to the living.

 

[Mashedout]

Everyone has an opinion on everything. Hers isn't special.

 

[chocolatebar]

Just today I made a thread about how neurodivergence activism is full of people who are more privileged than most of the impacted ones and will take the lead and actually fight for their own benefit instead of extending their hands to the ones with severe difficulties, who get very little benefit from the movements. Now your post made me wonder if the same happens in feminist movements. Did you experience something similar?

 

[FuneralCry]

Some people really are so cruel and insensitive. I think that a lot of the time it's best to not open up about our suffering at all as other people can potentially make things worse and invalidate what we go through. When I see the way that people often treat others it just makes me want to leave this world even more.

 

[hamvil]

I find it curious that she is pro-choice about abortion (the right for a woman to chose about her body), but she does not agree about the right of a person to chose about his/her life. Really drives me crazy. On top of that she is acting as a very entitled person by saying that her emotion about losing a person for suicide trumps your emotions about wanting to exit.

If it is worth anything the physical becomes less and less important with time. More mature people tend to look above the outside shell. But I again I am not in your situation so I cannot really judge.

 

[Julgran]

I have never ever in my life met anyone so judgemental and bullying and just pure evil.When I open up online about how I don't want to see another decade I have received judgement or not taken seriously.This encounter happened a while ago but I was the absolute worst ever in my life. The sheer hypocrisy.

The woman who judged me is a privileged woman in her late 30s who has everything she has society conventional beauty, a husband, children and stable life which most people would love to have.She lectured about how I shouldn't talk about killing myself because she has had family members who have died from suicide and even has the audacity to say" I dont want to hear that negative self talk, no no no." She mocked me when I opened up online about the sadness of never being in a relationship and said "a woman doesn't need a man" I hate people like her she has everything she doesn't know what it is like to be rejected all your life by men, to be overlooked because your features are not seem as "pretty" by society and worst of all feel like a total failure while seeing everyone else is doing better than you.

I f*cking do not care how left leaning she is and her pro choice abortion views because she is just as a bad as these religious pro life people she despises so much. Both bad as each other because both love imposing their depraved sense of morality on others and keep acting all holier than thou when actually they are piece of sh*t individuals.

This is what I absoultely hate about society people express shock whenever someone kills themselves and tweet the number of the suicide hotline whenever a celebrity kills themselves but these sameare the people who participate in a system of bullying, excluding and making fun of others who are different to them or have completely different life experiences that are not the norm. What are the hell are people expecting to happen? After all why should a person live in a world where people always judges them and life is not working out for them. Humans we didn't ask to be born so why should we stay in this world we never choose to stay in. Where is our right to choose ?
I feel sorry for her kids having a judgemental mother who judges a suicidal 25 year old. If that woman was my relative I would kill myself too.

Given what type of person she is, she's probably used to getting everyting easily and for free in life. You don't need to judge yourself by her standards.

 

[FireFox]

Given what type of person she is, she's probably used to getting everyting easily and for free in life. You don't need to judge yourself by her standards.

@Julgran

Honestly I really hate people like her because she has everything and doesn't know how lucky she is. She will never ever understand the pain to go through your life never a having man see you as beautiful and ignoring your own existence as a human being while focusing and chasing on the other attractive girl or women in the room Her being blonde haired blue eyed society and men will always see her beautiful.

I wish I was her and had her life because I do not want to be me anymore.

I want to get married in the future and it's painful being rejected all the time. She mocks me and tells me a "woman doesn't need a man" while being married to one herself. I want what she has but shames me for it.

She has everything but still behaves like a bullying arsehole towards me.

I find it curious that she is pro-choice about abortion (the right for a woman to chose about her body), but she does not agree about the right of a person to chose about his/her life. Really drives me crazy. On top of that she is acting as a very entitled person by saying that her emotion about losing a person for suicide trumps your emotions about wanting to exit.

If it is worth anything the physical becomes less and less important with time. More mature people tend to look above the outside shell. But I again I am not in your situation so I cannot really judge.

@hamvil

Spending time in circles with feminists I have noticed SOME feminists ( NOT ALL) behave just like those mean christians in the church who think they are superior to others just because they hold a set of beliefs and live a particular lifestyle which they believe is pure according to their interpretation of the bible and demand everyone complies.

This woman is the biggest sanctimonious piece of sh*t I have encountered in my life. If she was my relative I would kill myself too.

 

[Julgran]

Honestly I really hate people like her because she has everything and doesn't know how lucky she is. She will never ever understand the pain to go through your life never a having man see you as beautiful and ignoring your own existence as a human being while focusing and chasing on the other attractive girl or women in the room Her being blonde haired blue eyed society and men will always see her beautiful.

I wish I was her and had her life because I do not want to be me anymore.

I want to get married in the future and it's painful being rejected all the time. She mocks me and tells me a "woman doesn't need a man" while being married to one herself. I want what she has but shames me for it.

She has everything but still behaves like a bullying arsehole towards me.

Her life may not turn out that well, either. If she divorces her husband - which doesn't sound too unlikely, given her personality and beliefs - she may very well turn into an independent, competent and powerful, but lonely, cat lady. If so, she probably won't have enough money to get by, due to the rising cost of living, so she will resort to drinking red wine - but that's being a powerful person, of course

Your feelings about your own rejections is shared by many

 

[Funeralprincess]

I have never ever in my life met anyone so judgemental and bullying and just pure evil.When I open up online about how I don't want to see another decade I have received judgement or not taken seriously.This encounter happened a while ago but I was the absolute worst ever in my life. The sheer hypocrisy.

The woman who judged me is a privileged woman in her late 30s who has everything she has society conventional beauty, a husband, children and stable life which most people would love to have.She lectured about how I shouldn't talk about killing myself because she has had family members who have died from suicide and even has the audacity to say" I dont want to hear that negative self talk, no no no." She mocked me when I opened up online about the sadness of never being in a relationship and said "a woman doesn't need a man" I hate people like her she has everything she doesn't know what it is like to be rejected all your life by men, to be overlooked because your features are not seem as "pretty" by society and worst of all feel like a total failure while seeing everyone else is doing better than you.

I f*cking do not care how left leaning she is and her pro choice abortion views because she is just as a bad as these religious pro life people she despises so much. Both bad as each other because both love imposing their depraved sense of morality on others and keep acting all holier than thou when actually they are piece of sh*t individuals.

This is what I absoultely hate about society people express shock whenever someone kills themselves and tweet the number of the suicide hotline whenever a celebrity kills themselves but these sameare the people who participate in a system of bullying, excluding and making fun of others who are different to them or have completely different life experiences that are not the norm. What are the hell are people expecting to happen? After all why should a person live in a world where people always judges them and life is not working out for them. Humans we didn't ask to be born so why should we stay in this world we never choose to stay in. Where is our right to choose ?
I feel sorry for her kids having a judgemental mother who judges a suicidal 25 year old. If that woman was my relative I would kill myself too.

Feminists hate to say it, are often hypocrites. Let me share something with you. I grew up in high class areas and only date high class men. That being said, I've met a lot of high class women that try to pretend to be feminists. They do this as a way to try and "relate" to the low class, and the less privileged, as it protects them from being revealed as one of the privileged ones. There's actually a huge TikToker who was exposed for having a rich family and a wealthy boyfriend, yet she was making content on how she related to poverty, unconventional beauty, and how she was a feminist.
Most feminists are one of my kind. They come from success and thriving families, and if they're not rich, they're upper middle class. Most of them aren't liberal at all, or advocating for what they really claim to be. It's simply a shield to hide their privilege so I'm not surprised to hear a pretend feminist judging you. Most feminists aren't feminist at all and they're hypocrites to the core. Of course she says "no woman needs a man". She gets off on seeing women who aren't attractive (beauty matters) or who have less, suffer and be unloved; she thrives off of things like that, yet passes it off to be some sort of feminist miss independent bullshit…. If no woman needs a man, then she should leave her hypergamous lifestyle lol. I benefit from hypergamy just as she does, but neither of us benefit from the pathetic narrative of feminism, yet here she is, acting as if she's so "woke". She's lucky to have the traditional life that she does, and it's an insult to those who are true feminists, and it's an insult to suicidal people who will NEVER have what she does because they lack beauty, finances, or whatever the case may be.

Feminism isn't for women like me and her. Feminism is made for the low class and less fortunate; it's never been made for those who benefit from systems, and so she shouldn't be trying so eagerly to relate to what she cannot embody. Her hypocrisy SHOULD infuriate you to the core

 

[The Abyss]

Be a real shame if something happened to her.

 

[Funeralprincess]

Her life may not turn out that well, either. If she divorces her husband - which doesn't sound too unlikely, given her personality and beliefs - she may very well turn into an independent, competent and powerful, but lonely, cat lady. If so, she probably won't have enough money to get by, due to the rising cost of living, so she will resort to drinking red wine - but that's being a powerful person, of course

Your feelings about your own rejections is shared by many

You're incorrect. Her "beliefs" are all fake. She's not really a feminist at all, as she enjoys the hypergamous life she has, as she should. Many privileged women pretend to be feminists as a way of self protection of their privilege. She's not divorcing him because she's not a feminist at all

 

[Julgran]

You're incorrect. Her "beliefs" are all fake. She's not really a feminist at all, as she enjoys the hypergamous life she has, as she should. Many privileged women pretend to be feminists as a way of self protection of their privilege. She's not divorcing him because she's not a feminist at all

You could be right about her, but your description probably doesn't suit every Feminist. However, what's really important in this instance is her personality, and not the fact that she's a Feminist.

 

[Funeralprincess]

You could be right about her, but your description probably doesn't suit every Feminist. However, what's really important in this instance is her personality, and not the fact that she's a Feminist.

She's not a feminist. She's far from that. Too many women pretend to be feminists when they're secretly living a life that conservatives and capitalists provided for them. It happens wayy too often. More than people care to even address

 

[Julgran]

She's not a feminist. She's far from that. Too many women pretend to be feminists when they're secretly living a life that conservatives and capitalists provided for them. It happens wayy too often. More than people care to even address

There are Feminists who aren't that well off, though. Some of those even have nice personalities on a person-to-person basis.

 

[Funeralprincess]

she is not one of them, that is my point. Feminism is not designed for people of my economic class. It is for the poor. Feminism was not supposed to be centered around wealthy, cis, straight, white women. end of discussion

 

[FireFox]

she is not one of them, that is my point. Feminism is not designed for people of my economic class. It is for the poor. Feminism was not supposed to be centered around wealthy, cis, straight, white women. end of discussion

@Funeralprincess What I don't understand how someone like this woman who has everything be so judgemental and so bullying towards a suicidal 25 year old woman. This what perplexes me. She has everything but has time to judge, publicly shame me on the Internet for my own insecurities and worst of all joins the online mob army judging me. I am anonymous online and very open about my insecurities because in the real world I just can't be.

God forgive me for saying this but she is an evil cold hearted b*tch.

 

[Fktw0rld]

Fuck em!

 

[Funeralprincess]

@Funeralprincess What I don't understand how someone like this woman who has everything be so judgemental and so bullying towards a suicidal 25 year old woman. This what perplexes me. She has everything but has time to judge, publicly shame me on the Internet for my own insecurities and worst of all join the online mob army judging me. I am anonymous online and very open about my insecurities because in the real world I just can't be.

God forgive me for saying this but she is an evil cold hearted b*tch. I have never met anyone so judgemental.

She is evil and cold hearted. She's trying to be "relatable" by preaching some narrative that she herself isn't even truly a part of. She's cruel and very self absorbed it seems

 

[FireFox]

She is evil and cold hearted. She's trying to be "relatable" by preaching some narrative that she herself isn't even truly a part of. She's cruel and very self absorbed it seems

@Funeralprincess

This is why people do not open up about their depression because people just judge. I hate society because it's full of hypocritical arseholes. It is revolting.