Story Porn and masturbation

[Meditation guide]

ome people like their G spot hit too

Check Amazon for "The Butterfly" vibrator if you've never had a G spot orgasm. I highly recommend it.

Porn addiction has destroyed families.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

Check Amazon for "The Butterfly" vibrator if you've never had a G spot orgasm. I highly recommend it.

Porn addiction has destroyed families.

I've never owned a sex toy, but sounds like the butterfly works for you lol...

 

[Meditation guide]

I've never owned a sex toy, but sounds like the butterfly works for you lol...

It's so intense it's ridiculous. But G spot orgasms always are.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

It's so intense it's ridiculous. But G spot orgasms always are.

Dunno if I've ever had a G Spot orgasm... I'll have to Google it lol

 

[Scotty]

Depends on the method but no unpleasant would be the last thing I would ever call it. Your body will tell you how much rest you need in between each one. Then ofcourse there are both clitoral and vaginal orgasms and some people like their G spot hit too but literally you hit that and there is um well fluid...when I was younger I had to research on the net how to hit the G. If you've never had an orgasm please don't ctb without at least trying first. It can be really good stress relief. The water method is a good initiator. You just get in an unplugged bathtub and put your legs up under the spout and let the running water hit your clit. Make sure the temperature is right first! That was the secret method info first passed around the females when I was in school. Besides that and your own body self trying if you can't make it work just go get a vibrator or hand held massager. That will trip the trigger. Yes and you usually have to give your genitals a moment to rest before the next one is available. It may have been more exact if I had put closer to an hour and a half but you get my drift! And I kind of lose track of time.

What a great thread to momentarily take my mind off of CTB! Thanks!!!

 

[Symbiote]

this entire thread.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Were you following NOFAP culture? What helped me is staying busy and seclusion. The benefits for me were clear thinking, better mood and motivation. I think it helps you prioritize and go after your life goals and you no longer feel dependent on pleasure and no longer are you needy.

I had the opposite effect when I tried that once, I lasted maybe two weeks before I couldn't resist anymore. It became impossible for me to get anything done because I was always both hard and irritable for no reason so it must be different for me. I started getting worked up just by women even ones that I wasn't attracted to, talking to me and my mind even started imagining some extremely horrific scenarios in its hormone-fueled rage. I also found it extra difficult to fall asleep which I already struggle with all the time. Then again I've never been able to feel motivated with or without masturbation so idk. It's not like I wasn't busy either, this was before I had a car so I had to take the bus to college every morning and going out in public with a constant boner is still awkward even when my penis is small enough for most people to not notice.

All the other times I've done nofap challenges were unintentionally, sometimes when I'm especially depressed I unintentionally go a few days without masturbating because I just don't have the strength to even start but I don't think that's a good thing either because it just brings on the same irritability from before.

Anyways, as I said before I usually try to just do it once a day these days in order to ward off prostrate cancer. After those times where I've taken longer than a couple days off, I end up being unable to control the need to make up for it so I've ended up masturbating 2-5 times in one day after those periods of drought which I'm pretty sure isn't healthy either so I think I'll just stick to my once a day routine...

 

[Neowise]

Just a few fun facts because I saw some general myths here. And because female anatomy is no where being taught in any school or university (not in biology) for some reason.
(I know this is off topic, please forgive me for the sake or knowledge.)

I don't have a dick, so erectile dysfunction isn't a concern.

Anatomically, women have erections, too so they can go through erectile dysfuntion just like men. But most of the clitoris is hidden in the body so you don't see it (just the glans peaks out, that's what we usually refer to as clitoris even if it is just the tip of the iceberg), but you can feel it. Additionally, in contrary to men a woman can have sex with a "soft clit" so it isn't as much of an issue, but she will feel less pleasure and is less likely to orgasm.
Another fun fact: viagra works on women, too!

Then ofcourse there are both clitoral and vaginal orgasms

Vaginal orgasms are a myth, too. The body of the clitoris is actually larger than the one of a penis and it is "embracing" the vagina from both sides
So the G-spot is probably the spot where the clitoris is easily reachable.

I know most people might not believe me, but I am not making things up:

Clitoral Erections: Why It Happens, How It Feels, Tips, More

When a person with a vulva is aroused, blood rushes to the erectile tissue that makes up the clitoris, causing it to become engorged. Here's how it works.

www.healthline.com

https://helloclue.com/articles/cycle-a-z/what-is-the-clitoris (contains an anatomical drawing)
There is also a detailed English wikipedia page.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

Anatomically, women have erections, too

 

[Nutmeg]

Masturbation is better than sex.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

Masturbation is better than sex.

You've obviously not found the right partner yet
Even 'masturbation' is better with a partner - if they're good at it that is.

 

[Nutmeg]

You've obviously not found the right partner yet
Even 'masturbation' is better with a partner - if they're good at it that is.

Maybe .. I just hate it when people forget that masturbation is another form of sex and that having sex 3 times a day with your partner is way more stressful than jerking off 3 times a day. (sorry my english is bad) so masturbation is not that bad after all.

 

[lugerepair]

You've obviously not found the right partner yet
Even 'masturbation' is better with a partner - if they're good at it that is.

Not everyone likes partnered sex. Some people are asexual and legitimately prefer masturbation. Or they might prefer masturbation for a range of other reasons.

 

[Scotty]

What this thread has turned into almost makes me sad to CTB. Such an enjoyable conversation. Still going to go soon, but grateful for the fun. Thank you all!

 

[x~Sophia~x]

What this thread had turned into almost makes me sad to CTB. Such an enjoyable conversation. Still going to go soon, but grateful for the fun. Thank you all!

Don't be shy Scotty, you're welcome to join in if you want. The chat that is lol oops

 

[Scotty]

Don't be shy Scotty, you're welcome to join in if you want. The chat that is lol oops

I do very much enjoy both "the sex" and "the masturbation" entirely too much. Add in a great partner for one or both, and it is mind blowing on every level, especially emotionally. It is truly one of the things that I will miss the most. Perhaps we can have a big ol' SS sex party someday.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

I do very much enjoy both "the sex" and "the masturbation" entirely too much. Add in a great partner for one or both, and it is mind blowing on every level, especially emotionally. It is truly one of the things that I will miss the most. Perhaps we can have a big ol' SS sex party someday.

It's been a VEEEERY long time since I divulged in the 'partner' kind of sex - 15 years to be exact
So yeah, I'm up for it - I'll pencil it into my very busy diary lol

 

[Scotty]

It's been a VEEEERY long time since I divulged in the 'partner' kind of sex - 15 years to be exact
So yeah, I'm up for it - I'll pencil it into my very busy diary lol

15 years??? Oh no, that is way to long in my estimation. Something needs to be done about that for sure. Get on it...uhm I mean the task, not the proverbial cowgirl horse thing. You know what I mean...

 

[x~Sophia~x]

15 years??? Oh no, that is way to long in my estimation. Something needs to be done about that for sure. Get on it...uhm I mean the task, not the proverbial cowgirl horse thing. You know what I mean...

I'll save myself for the SS sex party ;))))

 

[Scotty]

I'll save myself for the SS sex party ;))))

How fun and or crazy would a SS sex party be? Maybe we can get a couple of the anti-suicide folk to pony up some cash to make it happen. For arguments sake, being in a group of caring individuals as well as having great sex increases levels of oxytocin and dopamine, thus making us happier and perhaps less prone to suicide. Let the anti-suicide groups put their money where their mouth is. If you truly care you will do this for us. (Kinda hope that they will put this on their website and twitter feed.)

 

[x~Sophia~x]

How fun and or crazy would a SS sex party be? Maybe we can get a couple of the anti-suicide folk to pony up some cash to make it happen. For arguments sake, being in a group of caring individuals as well as having great sex increases levels of oxytocin and dopamine, thus making us happier and perhaps less prone to suicide. Let the anti-suicide groups put their money where their mouth is. If you truly care you will do this for us. (Kinda hope that they will put this on their website and twitter feed.)

Total genius! Dunno why no one's thought of it before!!
Oyyy Fixthe26, what d' ya say? Think of all those lives you'll be saving :D
A couple o' grand should cover it... we'll do a live feed so you lot can all watch our transformations ))

 

[Scotty]

Total genius! Dunno why no one's thought of it before!!
Oyyy Fixthe26, what d' ya say? Think of all those lives you'll be saving :D
A couple o' grand should cover it... we'll do a live feed so you lot can all watch our transformations ))

I can't wait. I'll start the planning. They won't let us down, I know it.

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

I'll save myself for the SS sex party ;))))

How fun and or crazy would a SS sex party be? Maybe we can get a couple of the anti-suicide folk to pony up some cash to make it happen. For arguments sake, being in a group of caring individuals as well as having great sex increases levels of oxytocin and dopamine, thus making us happier and perhaps less prone to suicide. Let the anti-suicide groups put their money where their mouth is. If you truly care you will do this for us. (Kinda hope that they will put this on their website and twitter feed.)

 

[GenesAndEnvironment]

 

[JipJopMop]

Porn is amazing, it's one of the few parts of the day I enjoy.

There's nothing wrong with having a little fun by yourself

 

[DeadButDreaming]

I'm in the same boat, OP. When I first got my hands on a porn magazine over 2 decades ago I became as hard diamond in no time. Today, I can watch the hottest women being fucked into the middle of next week, and my dick doesn't extend a millimetre. Other guys won't believe us until they experience it themselves. I thought it was some christian myth concocted to get porn banned.

I noticed using my imagination instead of porn helps. Watching other men have sex isn't the point; you have to focus/fantasize about having sex yourself.

 

[Loser47]

Porn makes me even more depressed that I can't have it for real :/

 

[RedRumThisLoser]

Porn addiction ruined my life too. I realized I was addicted to it 7 years ago when I was 15 and trying to quit it so many times and always failing really killed my sense of control over myself and my life.

 

[Hurt]

Porn and masturbation caused me erectile dysfunction too. I feel like "my friend" is not the same anymore. Now I'm too depressed and I don't watch porn anymore nor masturbate. I was addicted and it helpt me for my anxiety. But it was a daily thing. Now it's gone. But I realized how porn damage our lives, our self-esteem making us feeling bad for our friend size for example. It is a waste of time.