Thanks for the replies <3
also, would times messages or written notes be better?
It depends on you. This is your journey, so it's up to you on what you leave in the world.
Personally, I would do both a voicemail and a note.
For the VM. I would make sure it was happy in tone and was kind-of generic. That way my family could listen to my voice if they needed to.
For a note, I would try to re-assure them why what I did was the right choice.
Before then, try to rationally think about why you want to CTB.
Truly consider all the options in front of you.
No matter the choice, we just want you to be happy.