Permanent solution to temporary problem

[hippiedeath]

I hate hearing this statement. People don't understand that my problem is permanent lest an act of God which isn't going to happen. I'm sick of it. I'm permanently fucked and suicide is the only answer. That is my belief.

 

[Dejected 55]

Life itself is a "temporary" problem, depending on how you choose to look at it. People just like to say buzzwords and platitudes to make themselves feel like they did something. Anyone who rattles off these sorts of things at you really doesn't care. They might not be mean, but they don't care enough to either think of something meaningful from their heart to say to you OR to just be there and listen and admit they don't have the answers.

 

[hippiedeath]

Life itself is a "temporary" problem, depending on how you choose to look at it. People just like to say buzzwords and platitudes to make themselves feel like they did something. Anyone who rattles off these sorts of things at you really doesn't care. They might not be mean, but they don't care enough to either think of something meaningful from their heart to say to you OR to just be there and listen and admit they don't have the answers.

Just happened yesterday. I also got threatened with them calling someone if I was unsafe. I will avoid this person from now on. It's just a matter of time and I'll be gone. I've always known it.

 

[Dejected 55]

Just happened yesterday. I also got threatened with them calling someone if I was unsafe. I will avoid this person from now on. It's just a matter of time and I'll be gone. I've always known it.

Yeah, people threatening to call someone on you or actually doing so is the worst. It just shows they don't care about you and only care about themselves.

 

[SilentSadness]

They finally admit it's a solution, any day now they'll make it available...

 

[Linda]

I hate hearing this statement. People don't understand that my problem is permanent lest an act of God which isn't going to happen. I'm sick of it. I'm permanently fucked and suicide is the only answer. That is my belief.

Yes, it's a stupid statement. If you have a problem that is temporary (or likely to be only temporary) then ctb is probably not the right way forward. But if your problem is both permanent (or likely to be permanent) AND serious, then ctb may be the right way forward.

Just think for a while about whether you have got locked into tunnel vision, and are seeing catching the bus as the only option. (It does happen. Quite often in fact.) Have you been imaginative enough to think about ALL your options? If you do have more than one option (and I don't know whether you do), don't rush to catch the bus before you have given the other options a fair try.

Good luck.

 

[lawlietsph]

this is the worst cliché thing anyone can say. even the "try going for a walk or listen to music" bs is better than this my problems are so temporary that i've been in mental torture for 15 years now and there was not a single day when I didn't wanted to end my life