itsalittlecold
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- Jun 7, 2024
- 37
I messed up the other week, I've spent a long time 'prepping' my brother and sister, trying to desensitise them to my death.
I got hold of SN, I decided to be noble & speak with my sister. As understanding as she is, I guess it's natural for her to do anything possible to 'save' me. We lost our parents at a very young age and I know them losing me too is going to break them anyway, so I decided to let my sister ring people and it resulted in me going to a mental health ward. Nothing has helped, they started me on new medication & now I feel in limbo again.. I suppose deep down, I've allowed it to go this way, so I can prove to them I really did try everything and hopefully now, they won't blame themselves.
How do people get over that guilt?
I got told I have adhd & bpd, adhd I knew I had. Bpd has opened my eyes a little and it's made me more certain than ever that I ain't fixable. I'm always going to ruin friendships and relationships, I'm always going to shut down and make myself believe I'm worthless.
All I wanted was a life with an understanding partner & family, I'm 29yr now and I've lost absolutely everything more than once, due to my brain. I don't even know what I do wrong half the time, I just know I'll always push away
I told my sister this time, they will be no warning as it puts to much responsibility on them. My plan now is to do it on the day of my birthday, in a month. That way, they only get reminded of me once a year.
Not even sure why I posted this, I guess I just needed to vent to someone.
I got hold of SN, I decided to be noble & speak with my sister. As understanding as she is, I guess it's natural for her to do anything possible to 'save' me. We lost our parents at a very young age and I know them losing me too is going to break them anyway, so I decided to let my sister ring people and it resulted in me going to a mental health ward. Nothing has helped, they started me on new medication & now I feel in limbo again.. I suppose deep down, I've allowed it to go this way, so I can prove to them I really did try everything and hopefully now, they won't blame themselves.
How do people get over that guilt?
I got told I have adhd & bpd, adhd I knew I had. Bpd has opened my eyes a little and it's made me more certain than ever that I ain't fixable. I'm always going to ruin friendships and relationships, I'm always going to shut down and make myself believe I'm worthless.
All I wanted was a life with an understanding partner & family, I'm 29yr now and I've lost absolutely everything more than once, due to my brain. I don't even know what I do wrong half the time, I just know I'll always push away
I told my sister this time, they will be no warning as it puts to much responsibility on them. My plan now is to do it on the day of my birthday, in a month. That way, they only get reminded of me once a year.
Not even sure why I posted this, I guess I just needed to vent to someone.