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Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
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Supply and demand. Men are the majority in there, so the market makes them less valuable.Only like top 5% of man get laid on tinder, and they do numbers.
Supply and demand. Men are the majority in there, so the market makes them less valuable.Only like top 5% of man get laid on tinder, and they do numbers.
Oops. If only it wasn't involuntary. Oh well.Yeah online dating sucks and it's tough for dudes, but ultimate advice would be don't be a fucking incel.
but ultimate advice would be don't be a fucking incel.
Are women picky
Oops. If only it wasn't involuntary. Oh well.
I'm not disagreeing with you btw, just lamenting that this objective fact means I made the right choice to die due to my inceldom.
Great point succinctly made, I can absolutely testify to that with my life, I was (literally) crazy unpicky and look where it (literally) got me. Assholes come in all shapes, sizes and genders. (Literally).Yeah online dating sucks and it's tough for dudes, but ultimate advice would be don't be a fucking incel.
That lame energy is very potent and it'll repel prospective partners (for good reason).
Are women picky? Sure, some can be, but so would you if one of the consequences was getting pregnant by a guy who doesn't even respect his own mum, let alone gf.
Unfortunately that is a fairly normal experience and not at all a reflection of you or your value as a person. I think the landscape has actually gotten worse over the last couple years and I wonder if there is even anyone real left on these apps.40 something here. Arguably, I had some good luck in my 20s early 30s. I signed up for two of the bottom of the barrel apps. OKC and POF. Good grief no one will even acknowledge my existence. I send a message, nothing desperate, usually an opened ended question to something that was in their profile and nothing. They don't even look at my profile. I could understand if something in my profile was problematic, but it doesn't even get that far. I never considered myself super attractive but I didn't think I was hideous, until now apparently.
Saw this suggestion on Reddit to someone else and it fucking made me cringe HARD. I get it, I'm old, but practicing selfies?! We all models now apparently. Practicingā¦ PRACTICING!!! Looks like I'm dying alone. Dude's pictures weren't terrible either.
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Admittedly, you could use some selfie practice as your examples are a little awkward (different angles, lighting, expressions, etc.) For example, one of your teeth is showing likely due to forcing a "photo smile" that you probably aren't super comfortable with.
Practice different expressions in a mirror until you have a few "comfortable photo faces", it's good practice before you try to do it while staring at your phone camera."