Venting oh goodness. shit went down this morning.

[synthcadia]

oh goodness. i woke up to a very big argument this morning.

for context, long story short, the issues with my brother started when i was in finland. so, i don't have an opinion on anything since i wasn't here. anyway, my parents hate his girlfriend. she doesn't like them. things have been tense between them ever since.

and so this morning i am woken up by an argument outside my door.

my brother pretty much wants to be independent it seems. and his approach to that was really not great. so my mom is like really upset by that. and so is my dad. like she cried and apologized to me for being a shitty parent. but she has good intentions, really. and my mom just gave me a 10+ year-old photo of my brother to take.

pretty much, he wanted to move out a while ago, but he just couldn't financially. and it's bad. so anything (family vacations, activities, etc.), he won't be invited. he's welcome to join, but they are done putting forth effort.

i wish he would move out, but for my own reasons.

and i don't know how to feel. tbh.

 

[synthcadia]

so idk why this was moved since it's venting??? like this is about how i'm feeling, so i don't understand why it was moved. but whatever, i'll make another thread for updates.