Good question. I've always assumed that seeing them covered with blood will make me instantly happy, feeling catharsis, like "You thought you could get away with everything and nothing bad will happen to you? Fuck you! You're wrong!"
If I can't compete in muscle mass, then I'm doomed to life of suffering and of sexual and social starvation. It's been a year since I last had sex, I'm losing my mind. I've already been suffering from PTSD and now being lonely only adds more suffering. I can't take it anymore. Even if I compete in other stuff, nothing will ever give me a satisfaction like being sexually or romantically desirable. The game is over for me, all is left now is to continue to feel pain and suffering for the next 50 years until I die. It's so god damn painful.
or every women is different and they all have their own personal preferences and nothing really has anything to do with it, some women are just more selfish and stuck up about it (or not even women, people in general. we're not a copy and paste of each other)
...and only interested in very muscular men?
Unfortunately yes, I am only interested in having sex with very muscular men, I;'m not attracted to an inch less than that and I can't work out, working out only induces anxiety attacks, I also suffer from two bulging discs in my lower back because of my attempt to ctb, so I can't really lift weights.
Isn't there even an entire gay stereotype of big muscular men attracted to smaller leaner men? (I've not had much contact with the gay community myself, and I'm sorry if I'm way off here.)
Not much really, when I was skinnier, I did have the chance to have sex with a few muscular men, but it was very rare. I'm now heavier, despite managing to lose 16 pounds, still no one is interested in me. And I may gain all the weight back because I can't bear the feeling of starving myself. No muscular men like fat men.
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The only way for me to get sex from other muscular men is to have muscles, which I can't do because of both physical and psychological problems that are unfixable. I'm also addicted to sugar and that's another unsolvable problem. I tried dieting for three months but now I broke, I'm so sick of drinking 8 cups of coffee without sugar just to fulfill my stomach to not feel hungry, this lifestyle is unsustainable. I'm in a permanent state of fighting against pain by resting and eating sugar.And I would also reccomend
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Thanks I'm cured
I think what he tried to say was that any solution you employ must stem from yourself.
I don't find any of these "solutions" sufficient. IF I CAN'T GET THE BODY I WANT, I WANT TO BREAK OTHER PEOPLE AND MAKE THEM DISABLED FOR LIFE, I WANT THEM TO JOIN ME IN THE JOURNEY OF MISERY.
Most people's problems go unsolved. Most poor people remain poor for the rest of their lives for factors outside of their control. Most obese people remain obese till the day they die because our bodies were designed to accumulate fat and save energy. You can't fight against a broken system, whether it's capitalism or evolution, it's way bigger than you, it created you and it will kill you. We are way powerless and hopeless than we would like to admit.
Because they're not solutions, but more general approaches to problem solving.
But why? Happiness isn't relative. It's not a competition.
Revenge? What revenge? That implies that someone slighted you, but people being gymbros isn't personal to you in any way.
Have you tried boxing? Might help you with the aggression. Unfortunately the most attracting is a person that is at ease with themselves.
i love bs like this, youre absolutely right, as a 1year old child i should "fully own my experiences" its my fault my mother never fed me when i couldnt even walk. LMFAO.
Not victimizing yourself doesn't mean being happy about your life circumstances. However no healing is possible while you think like this OP. This OP says in all caoital letters "I AM THE VICTIM". How much his circumstances are related to his "I AM THE VICTIM" self-beliefs and how much it is his physical attributes? If ypu have any life
And this is why I responded to this OP's thread. As nobody will grow in an echo chamber. Sometimes people need to be shown that they are the problem. Or that they have choices. If people believe they have no choices, then they will indeed not have choices. Self fulfilling prophecy.
muscular guy here. Um not all of us get women/men. For most of us we gym as a stress outlet. Not necessarily to pick up. Gyming is not hard. It just takes time and dedication. Don't be embarassed if you don't know what to do or what your starting point is (most people love to help new people). When I started the gym I could only bench press the bar. And in fact the women's bar (i think that is 35 pounds). Now I bench 225 lbs for 10 reps. Again, gyming is not hard. Just dedication, proper diet and supplements (LEGAL... so whey protein, creatine, etc.) and u can reach their level as well.
This is so fucking based. Even on the suicide forum truecels like us get discriminated...
There's no discrimination based on your success of lack thereof in your sex life. There's even widespread understanding for involuntary celibacy - many of us have been there, and a significant portion of us still are.
