New year resolution: get laid or CTB

[idiotstillwantstodie]

If i don't have a slam piece of my own exactly one month from now, i will CTB. Life without sex for someone with a high libido is just dying, alone.

 

[Its like that]

Lol.. Slam piece :). I hear you. Good luck, we should all have the pleasure we need in this life.

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

I wonder if I should put this in my tinder?

 

[PeacefulTonic]

I wonder if I should put this in my tinder?

If your objective is to repel women, sure

 

[Rational man]

If i don't have a slam piece of my own exactly one month from now, i will CTB. Life without sex for someone with a high libido is just dying, alone.

Hope you find the ONE. But seriously, sex with a stranger left me feeling cold and empty and.stinking.

 

[Chinaski]

If i don't have a slam piece of my own exactly one month from now, i will CTB. Life without sex for someone with a high libido is just dying, alone.

Bear in mind this is literally life or death l would advise you against describing women as "slam pieces" in non-misogynistic circles.

This is good advice, heeding it could literally save your life.

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

Bear in mind this is literally life or death l would advise you against describing women as "slam pieces" in non-misogynistic circles.

This is good advice, heeding it could literally save your life.

I think that there is a part of me that doesn't want to be saved? The part that has treated women well all his life and still has to listen to this kind of whining any time he says anything that is a bit crude or off-color.

Hope you find the ONE. But seriously, sex with a stranger left me feeling cold and empty and.stinking.

Could depend on the stranger i guess. And the reasons you are having sex, and the way you are having sex. I've had some wonderful encounters with people i didn't know.

Then again we have to remember, it is a cold, empty, stinking world. Maybe you just felt connected with someone.

 

[Chinaski]

I think that there is a part of me that doesn't want to be saved? The part that has treated women well all his life and still has to listen to this kind of whining any time he says anything that is a bit crude or off-color.

I was evidently not whining, it's clearly sound advice to conceal those views on women if you want to attract them.

Fwiw the tolerance to this kind of low-key misogyny is way too high on this website imho and it's quite telling that you feel able to use that language freely, when you even describe it as "crude / off colour" yourself, then bristle at the tiniest objection to it.

 

[Rational man]

Could depend on the stranger

Yes. In my case, other men, strangers in the night often, and when men get slamming pieces, theres one big stink of bodily fluids.

 

[PeacefulTonic]

I think that there is a part of me that doesn't want to be saved? The part that has treated women well all his life and still has to listen to this kind of whining any time he says anything that is a bit crude or off-color.

Could depend on the stranger i guess. And the reasons you are having sex, and the way you are having sex. I've had some wonderful encounters with people i didn't know.

Then again we have to remember, it is a cold, empty, stinking world. Maybe you just felt connected with someone.

Mans trying to give sound advice. Just because you treated women 'well' all your life doesn't mean you're entitled to say whatever you want to them and expect sex in return

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

I was evidently not whining, it's clearly sound advice to conceal those views on women if you want to attract them.

Fwiw the tolerance to this kind of low-key misogyny is way too high on this website imho and it's quite telling that you feel able to use that language freely, when you even describe it as "crude / off colour" yourself, then bristle at the tiniest objection to it.

It's not the objection itself, it's the fact that it's the only thing you even had to say about my post. And i didn't even state my sex, you had to go through my post history in order to get a whiff of my "low-key misogyny". If i was a female talking about male slam-pieces you wouldn't have anything to complain about.

If that is not whining then i don't know what is.

Mans trying to give sound advice. Just because you treated women 'well' all your life doesn't mean you're entitled to say whatever you want to them and expect sex in return

Who said that i did?

Yes. In my case, other men, strangers in the night often, and when men get slamming pieces, theres one big stink of bodily fluids.

Gotcha, i didn't think literally stinking.

 

[lonerclown666]

CTB for me

 

[Chinaski]

It's not the objection itself, it's the fact that it's the only thing you even had to say about my post. And i didn't even state my sex, you had to go through my post history in order to get a whiff of my "low-key misogyny". If i was a female talking about male slam-pieces you wouldn't have anything to complain about.

If that is not whining then i don't know what is.


Who said that i did?

Gotcha, i didn't think literally stinking.

Not being funny but the instances of women logging on to a website to say "if l don't get me a slam piece soon I will kms" are literally zero, l don't *need* to look at any of your posts to know you are male.

 

[SanguineHare]

Me, A Woman RN:

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

Not being funny but the instances of women logging on to a website to say "if l don't get me a slam piece soon I will kms" are literally zero, l don't *need* to look at any of your posts to know you are male.

Chances for that are not literally zero, although a bit low i guess. I used that crude remark to deliver a point. My point was that I'm not looking for someone to "connect emotionally" or whatever with, "just" someone to have sex with.

I'm just some random guy talking on a suicide forum. And i gotta worry about hurting peoples feelings over using a naughty word. Why the fuck would anyone care? How do people that touchy even survive a day in the real world, like seriously? Let's just end this discussion here.

If you don't like the fact that i'll ctb over lack of sex, that's fine. I get to complain about my life as much as the next guy, or girl, in here. If you have nothing to say about it then don't.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I wonder if I should put this in my tinder?

Depends on your personality.

 

[Deformationalplagio]

Here i am being facial deformed with serious health issues meanwhile some random trolls main issue is that he wants to have sex. This forum is going downhill thats fur sure. I guess its popular being a weeb and go trolling on websites like this...

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

Depends on your personality.

I wonder how this photo had anything to do with my post.

Here i am being facial deformed with serious health issues meanwhile some random trolls main issue is that he wants to have sex. This forum is going downhill thats fur sure. I guess its popular being a weeb and go trolling on websites like this...

You know, people kill themselves over very absurd things, abstract things like just being generally depressed etc. People are strange. For me, a lack of sex is a perfectly valid reason to ctb. It's just no fun. I have no people who would depend on me, so why continue living an unfulfilling life?

What you are doing right now is you are hijacking my post and making it about yourself and your problems. I'm sure you are in a lot of pain but why don't you make your own post instead?

 

[SanguineHare]

As a woman you're not going to get laid by any of us if you describe getting laid as "slamming a piece of your own."

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

As a woman you're not going to get laid by any of us if you describe getting laid as "slamming a piece of your own."

I know that. I was just watching rick & morty and they used that expression in the series. I found it funny. What can i say?
I'm easily influenced.

Or if we go a bit deeper, maybe i kind of hate the fact that i'm horny all the time and project this to the objects of my lust by using lightly derogatory language about "potentionally" existing sex partners. I'm also really scared of intimacy because I'm terrified of the thought of having kids of my own, and in a real relationship it wouldn't really be my decision whether they happen or not. This combination of these issues relating to sex is at least a part of the reason why i found the word funny.

In any case, i don't find it that serious of an offense. Then again, english is not my native language so some words that are quite harsh might not translate properly.

I know that. I was just watching rick & morty and they used that expression in the series. I found it funny. What can i say?
I'm easily influenced.

Or if we go a bit deeper, maybe i kind of hate the fact that i'm horny all the time and project this to the objects of my lust by using lightly derogatory language about "potentionally" existing sex partners. I'm also really scared of intimacy because I'm terrified of the thought of having kids of my own, and in a real relationship it wouldn't really be my decision whether they happen or not. This combination of these issues relating to sex is at least a part of the reason why i found the word funny.

In any case, i don't find it that serious of an offense. Then again, english is not my native language so some words that are quite harsh might not translate properly.

I think that for one I'm making great progress over here, taking a hard look into the reasons of my use of potentially offensive language. If I never made this post that wouldn't have happened.

This is the exact reason why i've lived my life saying and writing pretty much whatever i want, not just trying to make friends all the time like most people seem to do. You really need to say what you think, cringy as it might sometimes be, in order to grow and change as a person, you need that feedback from other people in order to do it.

Then again, look at where all that introspection has gotten me., i'm killing myself in a month! Life is complicated.

 

[Snake of Eden]

I just wanted to say I am so sorry that you are not getting some. I understand how frustrating it feels to not be able to fullfill a basic biological need like sex or intimacy. Your reasons are just valid as anyone else's reasons to feel compelled to ctb. I wish the world was more of a fair place where everyone get what they need. If you want to chat to someone about it PM me

 

[soundsinteresting]

I just wanted to say I am so sorry that you are not getting some. I understand how frustrating it feels to not be able to fullfill a basic biological need like sex or intimacy. Your reasons are just valid as anyone else's reasons to feel compelled to ctb. I wish the world was more of a fair place where everyone get what they need. If you want to chat to someone about it PM me

This. So much this. We as a society view things in black and white.
Even for something as apparently as "incelish" and "trollish" as this thread, we need to take a step back and offer words of kindness or understanding to the OP. We all have our unique problems. we battle with daily. Everything feeds into the other. We cannot be bully each other into making light of each other's feelings.

 

[Beer]

Chances for that are not literally zero, although a bit low i guess. I used that crude remark to deliver a point. My point was that I'm not looking for someone to "connect emotionally" or whatever with, "just" someone to have sex with.

What do you think about going to a prostitute?

Here i am being facial deformed with serious health issues meanwhile some random trolls main issue is that he wants to have sex. This forum is going downhill thats fur sure. I guess its popular being a weeb and go trolling on websites like this...

Desire is the root of suffering. It's easy to forget how essential some basic things we take for granted are. His reasons are just as valid as yours

 

[Seiba]

You can pay for it if it's just 'slamming a piece' you care about. Best of uh luck with things.

 

[idiotstillwantstodie]

You can pay for it if it's just 'slamming a piece' you care about. Best of uh luck with things.

I already pay for it, the thing is i can only pay so much.

We cannot be bully each other into making light of each other's feelings.

I dont really mind being bullied, the most i ever learned about myself was while being bullied.

There are a quite a lot of other emotions and factors behind my resolution. This is just the completely selfish angle to it. Life is pain, but i think i could forget this if could just bury my head into someones crotch and never get up.

Thats how a lot of people seem to handle life anyway.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I wonder if I should put this in my tinder?

Nah, Tinder actually has a way for people to report profiles for showing suicidal tendencies. Trust me I thought of putting something similar on my profile although I wouldn't have worded it like that…

 

[Deformationalplagio]

What do you think about going to a prostitute?


Desire is the root of suffering. It's easy to forget how essential some basic things we take for granted are. His reasons are just as valid as yours

Take for granted lmao are you serious? What part of i am facial deformed didnt you read?. I cant take anything for granted cant even go outside to do fucking groceries. Seeing woman as sex objects is fucking rude go mastrubate or hire a hooker or some shit jezus. Guess i found the teenagers who fuck up this forum.

 

[goldenvirginia]

Chances for that are not literally zero, although a bit low i guess. I used that crude remark to deliver a point. My point was that I'm not looking for someone to "connect emotionally" or whatever with, "just" someone to have sex with.

I'm just some random guy talking on a suicide forum. And i gotta worry about hurting peoples feelings over using a naughty word. Why the fuck would anyone care? How do people that touchy even survive a day in the real world, like seriously? Let's just end this discussion here.

If you don't like the fact that i'll ctb over lack of sex, that's fine. I get to complain about my life as much as the next guy, or girl, in here. If you have nothing to say about it then don't.

It isn't a naughty word. It's completely offensive. And I for one care. I'm sick to death of it and it's high time the mods started making it clear that it isn't acceptable. I'm presuming racist comments wouldn't be allowed, so why the hell are blatantly misogynistic ones given a free pass.

Your lack of sex is easily explained. No woman finds shit like that attractive.

 

[Meretlein]

Take for granted lmao are you serious? What part of i am facial deformed didnt you read?. I cant take anything for granted cant even go outside to do fucking groceries. Seeing woman as sex objects is fucking rude go mastrubate or hire a hooker or some shit jezus. Guess i found the teenagers who fuck up this forum.

I can only imagine how agonizing your situation must be but that does not give you the right to invalidate others' pain. There is always someone who has it worse, exactly one person has ever gone through "the worst" if you can even calculate such a thing. Let's not start a competition of who is deepest in the pits of misery.

 

[Meretlein]

It isn't a naughty word. It's completely offensive. And I for one care. I'm sick to death of it and it's high time the mods started making it clear that it isn't acceptable. I'm presuming racist comments wouldn't be allowed, so why the hell are blatantly misogynistic ones given a free pass.

Your lack of sex is easily explained. No woman finds shit like that attractive.

While this post is written in a less than ideal tone, there is no rule violation.