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wham311

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Hiv from someone on dating app
 
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no, it takes years for hiv to develop into aids and even after that, it's not instant death.
why would you commit to this method while there's way more efficient ones
 
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wham311

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no, it takes years for hiv to develop into aids and even after that, it's not instant death.
why would you commit to this method while there's way more efficient ones
The other ones aren't as effective and much more brutal than a needle
 
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SecretDissociation

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I mean SN is pretty effective? And probably hanging if you get it right?? HIV is not the way. It's slow, painful and slow,.. And you also become a biohazard towards other people.
 
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wham311

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I mean SN is pretty effective? And probably hanging if you get it right?? HIV is not the way. It's slow, painful and slow,.. And you also become a biohazard towards other people.
The numbers on hanging are nowhere near accurate. Not every failure gets reported, not even close.

Sn is fucking brutal and nowhere near 100% effective.

Points for your other points.
 
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SecretDissociation

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It's your choice bubs. Would you rather die by contracting a heavily stigmatised, quite contagious, quite debilitating disease, instead of using another method? That's up to you.

Although, no idea how you're going to just find someone with HIV. Just pure coincidence?
 
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wham311

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It's your choice bubs. Would you rather die by contracting a heavily stigmatised, quite contagious, quite debilitating disease, instead of using another method? That's up to you.

Although, no idea how you're going to just find someone with HIV. Just pure coincidence?
Dating app
 
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Heidi48

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Hiv from someone on dating app

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i think you might struggle to find someone online who knows they have HIV and are not in receipt of treatment. current mediation makes the virus almost untraceable . Life expectancy for those with HIV is fairly similar to the population.
 
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this is not a method. no disrespect op.
 
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wham311

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This still assumes someone wants to sleep with you. So far from 109% anything.


It's literally what your proposed so, uh, look in the mirror much?



You mean "untransmissible".
YOu can inject blood, doesn't necessitate sex. Not literally. Nice attitude.
 
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YOu can inject blood, doesn't necessitate sex. Not literally. Nice attitude.
Says the guy who thinks HIV is something to mess around with. Your whole post is a fucking insult to people living with HIV everywhere. You should delete it.

Also, just how do you imagine that whole "hey we just met on a dating app mind if I draw some of your blood?", conversation panning out?
 
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wham311

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Says the guy who thinks HIV is something to mess around with. Your whole post is a fucking insult to people living with HIV everywhere. You should delete it.



Name a method here that isn't something to mess around with.

Maybe you'd prefer shooting yourself in the head with a shotgun.

As if any of this is moral or easy. Get off your high horse. You're here for a reason and it's selfish and going to hurt others you're not above anyone.
 
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Name a method here that isn't something to mess around with.

Maybe you'd prefer shooting yourself in the head with a shotgun.

As if any of this is moral or easy. Get off your high horse. You're here for a reason and it's selfish and going to hurt others you're not above anyone.
Wowo you sure know a lot about me for someone who... Checks notes... Knows absolutely fuck all about me. Fuck off.
 
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Mar 12, 2024
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you can stop writing then whenever you want and being an absolute ass
I'd say the person trying to use people with a serious illness as objects in his fantasy game is the one being an ass but that's just me.

Aside from all the other obvious ethical, practical, legal, medical and moral aspects that should stop this being any more than a fleeting gedankenexperiment you are asking someone to be directly responsible for you becoming infected. That's low.

If you think bugchasing is sick you should think very carefully before you go chasing bugs.
 
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wham311

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I'd say the person trying to use people with a serious illness as objects in his fantasy game is the one being an ass but that's just me.

Aside from all the other obvious ethical, practical, legal, medical and moral aspects that should stop this being any more than a fleeting gedanexperiment you are asking someone to be directly responsible for you becoming infected. That's low.

If you think bugchasing is sick you should think very carefully before you go chasing bugs.
What's your method dude who you leaving behind
 
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liverhood

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Feb 23, 2023
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wow, alright, mr popular. not everyone is so lucky to be a chick/dude magnet like you! some of us have to stick to the good ol' grill-in-the-bathroom :P

also, if my memory serves me right, i'm fairly certain someone's already mentioned aids on ash a while ago...
 
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Apr 7, 2024
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Well yeah, but how are you going to specifically find someone with active, untreated HIV?
Some dating apps allow people to list their status. I've matched with positive people. Never inquired further about their treatment status but I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard. I think you can even set some apps to only search for HIV positive folks (thinking grindr, specifically).
Some dating apps allow people to list their status. I've matched with positive people. Never inquired further about their treatment status but I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard. I think you can even set some apps to only search for HIV positive folks (thinking grindr, specifically).
On grindr, if you click on "more filters" and scroll down to "tribes," it lists poz as an option if you want to narrow your search down to HIV positive folks.

But as others have stated, HIV isn't really a death sentence in 2025. And it can take a while to show up on screenings so you might unknowingly infect others while waiting on your positive test result, which seems crappy.
 
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not-2-b-the-answer

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Mar 23, 2018
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Hiv from someone on dating app
This method was brought up before years ago. I tried to talk them out of it. I don't know what they decided.
As @humantool mentioned it can take years for HIV to develop into AIDS. Some don't get aids and are just carriers.
I don't know if you have looked at any pics of people with AIDS but it's scary and sad. 😥
I wish you the best whatever you decide. I think it will take many years and a lot of pain before you pass. 🤗🤗🤗
 
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Heidi48

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This still assumes someone wants to sleep with you. So far from 100% anything.


It's literally what your proposed so, uh, look in the mirror much?



You mean "untransmissible".
thank you for noticing this- i did mean untransmissible.
 

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