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goodoldnoname923
Wanting to find peace
- Mar 28, 2024
- 835
I really wish i could find a better way of describing this delimma because it's one that lacks a solution and one i really want people to understand in length despite the difficulty of it…again i really wish i could explain this better but here we go
I wish I could've stuck with her…I wish things would've been different
I wanna be in her arms…Just forget the world exists
Forget who i am…who i was
I wanna commit myself to someone, I want someone to be my everything and for me to be theirs but i want it to be one of them…i don't want it to be someone new…but its that or die…idk what i prefer
But It doesn't matter what anyone will do…they could do everything blue and kimchi did and more…they could be better than them…but they still wouldn't ever be them…that's ultimately the problem…It's not fair..It's an unrealistic standard and an impossible goal
The thing is…when blue came into my life it took her 3 years to even reach the level i was with kimchi and longer still to surpass her i knew kimchi 2 years before her departure
So how long would it take someone to catch up to blue,to build up trust with me…and even so that would take years and would it even be worth it?
Would they still be the same person after all those years wouldn't i wear them down because thats not even taking into account all my emotional baggage
I need Someone to occupy the void they left…but it's not just about being commited and loyal and everything else that comes along with it
It's dealing with all my emotions my outbursts my clingness my doubts and distrust…and much more I'm probably missing out and as i say after all those years when finally levelling up with blue will it really be worth it…for either of us
Is it worth me waiting…is it worth putting them through it…i don't think so…they're basically setup to fail
And this is the reason i want…need…see no otherway than dying…i need someone who is never going to exist and even if they do is it worth it not only for me but more importantly them
I wish I could've stuck with her…I wish things would've been different
I wanna be in her arms…Just forget the world exists
Forget who i am…who i was
I wanna commit myself to someone, I want someone to be my everything and for me to be theirs but i want it to be one of them…i don't want it to be someone new…but its that or die…idk what i prefer
But It doesn't matter what anyone will do…they could do everything blue and kimchi did and more…they could be better than them…but they still wouldn't ever be them…that's ultimately the problem…It's not fair..It's an unrealistic standard and an impossible goal
The thing is…when blue came into my life it took her 3 years to even reach the level i was with kimchi and longer still to surpass her i knew kimchi 2 years before her departure
So how long would it take someone to catch up to blue,to build up trust with me…and even so that would take years and would it even be worth it?
Would they still be the same person after all those years wouldn't i wear them down because thats not even taking into account all my emotional baggage
I need Someone to occupy the void they left…but it's not just about being commited and loyal and everything else that comes along with it
It's dealing with all my emotions my outbursts my clingness my doubts and distrust…and much more I'm probably missing out and as i say after all those years when finally levelling up with blue will it really be worth it…for either of us
Is it worth me waiting…is it worth putting them through it…i don't think so…they're basically setup to fail
And this is the reason i want…need…see no otherway than dying…i need someone who is never going to exist and even if they do is it worth it not only for me but more importantly them