My mom forgot i was molested

[xpdawn]

She forgot and now belittles me for my ptsd. She chose her pedo boyfriend over me. She defends and wants to have a life with him. Why? How could she do this to me. She doesn't care that he abused me when i was younger.She doesn't "understand" why im afraid of men. I cant go on like this anymore man, its weighing down on me so much. i hate her and i want to die so bad.

 

[Kikoo]

Cut the whore off as soon as you can. I have less than zero respect for mothers this kind, including my own one.

 

[SoftWorries]

My mom was the exact same. Once I said I wanted to call the police on my brother who abused me. She threw the phone at my head and it crashed against the wall.

Funny enough she was molested as well. My life was a doll house of her torment acting out scenes from her childhood.

And now I can barely get out of bed anymore.

 

[xpdawn]

Cut the whore off as soon as you can. I have less than zero respect for mothers this kind, including my own one.

im planning on it

My mom was the exact same. Once I said I wanted to call the police on my brother who abused me. She threw the phone at my head and it crashed against the wall.

Funny enough she was molested as well. My life was a doll house of her torment acting out scenes from her childhood.

And now I can barely get out of bed anymore.

sorry that all that happened to you, i hope you feel better soon :( . at least i know im not alone anymore , so thanks :)

 

[WantsToJumpAlready]

My mom was the exact same. Once I said I wanted to call the police on my brother who abused me. She threw the phone at my head and it crashed against the wall.

Funny enough she was molested as well. My life was a doll house of her torment acting out scenes from her childhood.

And now I can barely get out of bed anymore.

I tried to report my brother for molesting me when I was a teenager and my mom screamed at me for ruining my brother's chance in the military - ended up not reporting and never telling therapists about it (bc they're mandated reporters). She'd always tell them I was lying or wanted attention, tried to even say sexual exploration between is normal. My mom had this obsession of a perfect family unit with her, me, and my brother - called us "The 3 Musketeers" while completely ignoring that he molested me and abused me emotionally as well. I spent years of forced Christmases and Birthdays as a "family" to keep the peace. Finally cut her off the past November but the aftermath has been difficult.

She forgot and now belittles me for my ptsd. She chose her pedo boyfriend over me. She defends and wants to have a life with him. Why? How could she do this to me. She doesn't care that he abused me when i was younger.She doesn't "understand" why im afraid of men. I cant go on like this anymore man, its weighing down on me so much. i hate her and i want to die so bad

As you can tell from above I know this all too well and just want to give you a hug. I'm so sorry our mothers of all people failed us. I would say don't act impulsively though because although the aftermath has been hard, and still is, cutting her off did improve my life immensely. I cut her off this past November.

 

[MrDarkness]

I'd cut her off, she doesn't even seem to be worth any effort

 

[Nexus]

I don't know that I'd go as far as to cut her off, - even though you have all right too - but I'd definitely keep the relationship at an arms length, with very clear boundaries. I had a pretty poor relationship with my mom all the way until she passed. I'm in part saying this because of my own regrets, but you only get one mom, you know?

Btw, what Manhwa have you read?
I assume you've read the big ones like Solo Leveling, Omniscient Reader (my favorite), etc.

 

[FuneralCry]

That really is so incredibly cruel, I find it so horrible how humans create so much suffering in this world.

 

[xpdawn]

I don't know that I'd go as far as to cut her off, - even though you have all right too - but I'd definitely keep the relationship at an arms length, with very clear boundaries. I had a pretty poor relationship with my mom all the way until she passed. I'm in part saying this because of my own regrets, but you only get one mom, you know?

Btw, what Manhwa have you read?
I assume you've read the big ones like Solo Leveling, Omniscient Reader (my favorite), etc.

Thats true, there are times where she genuinely does act lovingly, but then she goes back to berating me >:/
Ive read lots of manhwa but i rarely ever finish them and i have read those ones, but i like villainess type ones best :D

 

[Jolene79]

The ultimate betrayal. Do you need this woman in your life? Can you cut her off? Have you ever put it in writing in a letter so it's always in black and white that she chose a random pedo over her child. I hope she suffers severely for this. They should die, not you bless you. I believe this scenario is more common than we realise