Help My gf got a job and I’m very proud of her but I’m too chronically sick to work rn and idk what to do when she’s gone?

[dreaming_of_pearl]

I'm so proud of her she did such a good job!! Like she's been struggling for a while because people suck like you apply for jobs on LinkedIn and they are like yeahhh this position isn't open yetttt like ????

For some reason tho I woke up today with a weird sense of defeat mabye it's because I don't like change and this technically was change but I just got reminded of the fact that rn with the gastreoparasis I genuinely can't work a job rn. If I had weed I wouldn't be so bad but I can't smoke. I wish I could work.. I wish I could do anything I liked.

What can I do? I've been trying to look to the gastreoparasis subreddit but they don't like me there.

 

[Some place nice]

Your can try a stay at home job. That's all I can say after searching it up.

 

[53 Huffy A-Ride]

Sounds like you're limited to either remote work (easy remote jobs with no skillset necessary are going to exist in mostly data entry, but if you're smart, you'll just get an AI tool to do all your excel importing/exporting for you and keep most of your day for fucking off or gathering more remote work lol) OR starting your own business! If work simply isnt an option, then you're at least getting disability and at that point I suggest finding alternate purpose - volunteering doesn't sound glamorous, but its great for your mental health. Since you're not working, why not take up fitness as well? Even if you like neither of those things, forcing yourself to do them will at least mean you're taking some sort of step for yourself, which sounds like what you're missing from your post. Plus if you were to do both of those things for, lets say, a super short amount of time. A month. If you did both those things every day for a month I guarantee youll be feeling mentally better by the end of it. Then, you'll more than likely have an answer for yourself when you re-ask yourself "what is it that i want to do?"

Cheers.

 

[TheDog_]

What's up with the Gp subreddit ? I used to use it but it upset me that I couldn't vent without having people tell me to go to a therapist bc being upset about having a gastrointestinal disorder is fucking weird or something. Toxic positivity af there