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OverTheRainbow
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- Feb 7, 2019
- 66
Please someone talk to me... I think I'm emotionally attached to someone who's emotionally abusive but I don't know if that's right ...
He is off and on with me in the relationship, claims he's always treading water around eggshells with me even though I tried really hard to take his criticisms on board and become better. He acts in way that make me feel incredibly insecure and if I show I'm upset he makes me feel bad like I'm hurting him or I'm crazy... He's barely nice to me, only sometimes, and he with holds complimenting me as much as he can. We are both very passionate storytellers and today I finished my script for my personal project. I was so nervous, he knew how nervous I was showing it... And he read it and he said he 'liked it' but then gave a massive list tearing it apart, saying how the main character wasn't good, the conflict wasn't good and the characters had no room to grow and everything was awkward. It hurt a lot because he didn't actually say anything he liked. I told him and he took a screenshot of that small sentence saying 'i like it' but to me it felt like he was just saying that... He got angry with me and now he's ghosting me. I got his criticisms, I really did... It just hurt that he wasn't saying anything nice and I had to really force him. I felt s bit like he was tearing me down... Now he's probably sick of me because I'm too sensitive and now I want to apologise but I genuinely don't know if I'm being the jerk here... I've just been lying on my bed, pills next to me, thinking of taking an overdose right now because I am so defeated. I don't care if it hurts. I just want to die. My project obviously sucks, I don't know why I bothered...
He is off and on with me in the relationship, claims he's always treading water around eggshells with me even though I tried really hard to take his criticisms on board and become better. He acts in way that make me feel incredibly insecure and if I show I'm upset he makes me feel bad like I'm hurting him or I'm crazy... He's barely nice to me, only sometimes, and he with holds complimenting me as much as he can. We are both very passionate storytellers and today I finished my script for my personal project. I was so nervous, he knew how nervous I was showing it... And he read it and he said he 'liked it' but then gave a massive list tearing it apart, saying how the main character wasn't good, the conflict wasn't good and the characters had no room to grow and everything was awkward. It hurt a lot because he didn't actually say anything he liked. I told him and he took a screenshot of that small sentence saying 'i like it' but to me it felt like he was just saying that... He got angry with me and now he's ghosting me. I got his criticisms, I really did... It just hurt that he wasn't saying anything nice and I had to really force him. I felt s bit like he was tearing me down... Now he's probably sick of me because I'm too sensitive and now I want to apologise but I genuinely don't know if I'm being the jerk here... I've just been lying on my bed, pills next to me, thinking of taking an overdose right now because I am so defeated. I don't care if it hurts. I just want to die. My project obviously sucks, I don't know why I bothered...