I always thought I'd ctb before we moved house. Not because I don't want to move city but because I wasn't coping well...and thought the move would cause more stress. But I can't leave my partner while all this stress is ongoing. Is it bad to wait until we've moved and then ctb? I'm just so torn. The new city is much closer to my planned location and may mean a whole new life....by the sea. But I'm struggling to hold on. Any advice
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needthebus
Victim of Sexual Violence, Invisible and Abandoned
- Apr 29, 2024
- 486
Is there any chance you'll like life more once you are in the new area by the sea?
needthebus
Victim of Sexual Violence, Invisible and Abandoned
- Apr 29, 2024
- 486
You should do the move. Perhaps you'll end up happier. A move doesn't always change everything, but sometimes it does. You could make new friends, or find new things you like to do, and he's going to be devastated if you die no matter where you are.
You should give it a try. If you still want to do it a year after the move, you could divorce him, move out of the new place, and then consider your options after you're far away from him so he's not as traumatized. But perhaps you'll be happier and won't need to do anything at all?
It seems like the wrong time to do it now and things could change so do the move. If you are unhappy, just keep pushing through it, get support from places and people if you need it.
hope you are okay
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Impossible to know how you feel. It's difficult because I had no doubts or outs from dying for years, so i don't know how people who have doubts about CTB should proceed. Maybe others will be more helpful.
Worndown
Illuminated
- Mar 21, 2019
- 3,197
New possibilities!
If you can look forward and handle the stress, it might be worth giving it a try.
If you can look forward and handle the stress, it might be worth giving it a try.
human909
I just want peace
- Dec 30, 2024
- 251
I guess you could try and see if your life changes before you actually do ctb. But if you really want to it's your choice.
