Help Motivate me

[sximii]

Every time I get close to the place order button for SN, I hesitate and I get super nervous and scared. Please motivate me guys, push me to do it make me do place that fucking order
Edit: I didn't realise it was against the rules so sorry

 

[alleine]

The title made me think that you wanted to be motivated to live so I thought about that instead...

Just think that there are too many people in the world that deserve to be slapped but they go unslapped, often all their life. You can make a change.

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

I am not sure wheather motivation to suicide is against the rules of this forum. Only this: If you order poison does not mean that you have to use it.

 

[SVEN]

Sorry, I'm very much pro choice, rather than pro suicide. If you're uncertain about obtaining the means to ctb it's maybe not time to be doing so.

 

[lonergirl_26]

I'm sorry but no one can motivate you to do it. It should be something that you decide by yourself without the influence of others. Only you can decide what's best for you.

 

[DivineSpark]

I dont want to be responsible for death of someone else....sorry.

 

[Carrot]

When reading the title I thought this should be in the revovery section.

I would feel terrible encouraging somebody to cbt.

Do you want to explain what brought you here?

 

[spero_meliora]

No one can push or convince you. The most important thing was said up thread:

Only this: If you order poison does not mean that you have to use it.

Some people find it comforting to have it, and never use it - and that is completely valid.

 

[bankai]

You got to decide for yourself OP. I know it's hard. But ask yourself if you really want to go ahead with the bus in the future. If your answer is yes, then go ahead and click that button.

 

[opheliaoveragain]

just stopping in to clearly say it's against the rules to encourage and if you see it, please report it. no disrespect OP.

 

[sximii]

Sorry everyone, I didn't realise it was against the rules

 

[TheVanishingPoint]

I'm sorry to say this, but this thread should not even exist in the way it was framed.

We cannot — and must not — motivate anyone, in either direction.
Encouraging someone to live or to die, to buy or to resist, is always an act of interference.
And every form of interference is a violation of self-determination, even when it masquerades as help.

Those who push others to live at all costs are manipulating them.
Those who push others to die are doing exactly the same.
They are two faces of the same domination: the one that denies inner sovereignty.

I believe, with clarity and without rhetoric, that each individual must be sovereign over their own existence.
And this means that no one has the right to push them — not toward forced survival, nor toward incentivized extinction.
If an extreme gesture is ever to occur, it cannot be the product of external motivation.
It must arise in silence, in the most authentic solitude, where no applause and no condemnation can touch it.

This is not merely a matter of forum rules — although those do exist.
It is a matter of personal ethics.

And woe to anyone who dares to motivate — from either side of the threshold.