Venting Might CTB tonight?

[8272019]

I am going through hell. Someone online managed to find all my personal information and not only leak it to the public, but also use it to cause harm to me, my friends, and my family. It is getting very severe, people being sent to my address where my family also lives. Im getting death threats and rape threats. They are trying to get my mother fired from her job so we fall back into poverty. They won't leave us alone. Police haven't done anything to help whatsoever. I feel hopeless. Part of me doesn't really want to die, but the other part of me sees it as the best option. It will get this shit overwith, since the point of it is to hurt me directly. And if I ctb, then they'll win and stop hurting the people I care about. We keep trying everything we can, but it just continues. I'm considering just ctb now in order to prevent further harm. I understand it'll hurt my loved ones, because grief. But it's better than multiple of my family members dying. I'm fine with dying for my family's safety. My only concern is that I am scared my attempt will fail. They cannot afford for my attempt to fail. Its either I attempt and succeed, or I don't. I'm feeling so cornered.

 

[Living sucks]

What could you have done that people are threatening to kill and rape you?
Why would police do nothing? They have to protect you
what country?
I'm not sure ctb is the answer esp if you don't want to

 

[8272019]

What could you have done that people are threatening to kill and rape you?
Why would police do nothing? They have to protect you
what country?
I'm not sure ctb is the answer esp if you don't want to

1. Met the wrong person. We met, became friends, he showed red flags, I cut him off. He got upset and this happened.
2. Not all too sure to be honest. I wish I knew.
3. USA
4. Yeah that's what I am debating. I'm just extremely scared for my family's safety.

 

[Living sucks]

So the person you met is the one threatening to kill and rape you?
What personal info could they have leaked?
people being sent to your address? Why? Who?
You say, they won't leave us alive.. who is they?
Police take death and rape threats seriously in the US

 

[Isadeth]

This WILL pass. This person is not going to define YOU. Don't give them the power or the satisfaction of boarding that bus unless it's your own choice and they have nothing to do with it.

So information is given out. Document, document, document. Build a case of threats then attempt to press charges.

They're calling places of employment? Give said places a heads up that you and your family is being harrassed.

You feel threatened? Get protection. Stand your ground.

You know who the individual is, go to your local courthouse and get a restraining order. If they need you to press charges first, ask for officer assistance as you go file your paperwork.

I hope you're well. Don't make any rash decisions due to this person. Because even if you think by you being gone will cause it to all go away, it might just make it worse for your family and now you're not there to try to help. I'm so sorry you're enduring this.

 

[8272019]

So the person you met is the one threatening to kill and rape you?
What personal info could they have leaked?
people being sent to your address? Why? Who?
You say, they won't leave us alive.. who is they?
Police take death and rape threats seriously in the US

1. Yes
2. Address, workplace, school my sibling goes to, ect.
3. Strangers, and its mainly meant to give the guy who started this laughs. He finds it funny
4. They wont leave us alone, the person behind this all
5. Again, I am not all too sure why they aren't taking it seriously. I really wish they would. And if they are taking it seriously, they aren't keeping me in the loop about anything whatsoever. Nothing has changed. Its mind boggling to me.

This WILL pass. This person is not going to define YOU. Don't give them the power or the satisfaction of boarding that bus unless it's your own choice and they have nothing to do with it.

So information is given out. Document, document, document. Build a case of threats then attempt to press charges.

They're calling places of employment? Give said places a heads up that you and your family is being harrassed.

You feel threatened? Get protection. Stand your ground.

You know who the individual is, go to your local courthouse and get a restraining order. If they need you to press charges first, ask for officer assistance as you go file your paperwork.

I hope you're well. Don't make any rash decisions due to this person. Because even if you think by you being gone will cause it to all go away, it might just make it worse for your family and now you're not there to try to help. I'm so sorry you're enduring this.

Thank you. I unfortunately do not know this person other than their online username. I was foolish to trust them so easily. I am still very scared this won't die down. Workplaces and such have been notified, which is good. I am most worried about my family's safety, though we installed a lot of new things to protect our house. And as for police officers, they aren't helping. They aren't doing anything. I am not all too sure why, but I hope that they will soon. My mind is in such a mess that I cannot begin to even make a 100% decision if I should ctb or not, I'm not 100% sure about many things.

 

[Living sucks]

Document and file a restraining order. Take pictures of the people coming to your house.

the general public doesn't care about your address workplace school etc.. so if you mean leaked it to people that he sends to harass you.. you need to get their pictures.

tell the police you need someone watching your house., they will drive by every couple hours.. if they say no, talk to a higher rank. Tell them that if you are harmed or killed they will be sued and have proof of your requests

this is not a reason to ctb ..

 

[Isadeth]

1. Yes
2. Address, workplace, school my sibling goes to, ect.
3. Strangers, and its mainly meant to give the guy who started this laughs. He finds it funny
4. They wont leave us alone, the person behind this all
5. Again, I am not all too sure why they aren't taking it seriously. I really wish they would. And if they are taking it seriously, they aren't keeping me in the loop about anything whatsoever. Nothing has changed. Its mind boggling to me.


Thank you. I unfortunately do not know this person other than their online username. I was foolish to trust them so easily. I am still very scared this won't die down. Workplaces and such have been notified, which is good. I am most worried about my family's safety, though we installed a lot of new things to protect our house. And as for police officers, they aren't helping. They aren't doing anything. I am not all too sure why, but I hope that they will soon. My mind is in such a mess that I cannot begin to even make a 100% decision if I should ctb or not, I'm not 100% sure about many things.

Take it one second at a time and breathe. If the police you contacted are local, skip them and contact state police. They have resources of tracking down who it is. If you're fearing for your safety and your loved ones safety, you have every right to call and get the process started. There's also online crime unit reporting. It's basically filling out a police report online and if any information in their database pops up of others in your situation appear they'll contact you (they contact regardless)... I only know because I had a doctor that stalked me and other pts. It was a nightmare and a long drawn out process but now he's unable to use his position of power to prey on others. He loved to use technology to play mind games, and in the end it was his downfall.

What all has this person already done that you can document and prove? How long has it been happening?

 

[8272019]

Document and file a restraining order. Take pictures of the people coming to your house.

the general public doesn't care about your address workplace school etc.. so if you mean leaked it to people that he sends to harass you.. you need to get their pictures.

tell the police you need someone watching your house., they will drive by every couple hours.. if they say no, talk to a higher rank. Tell them that if you are harmed or killed they will be sued and have proof of your requests

this is not a reason to ctb ..

Thank you, I will try to contact a higher rank to see if there are any other possible ways to get this sorted out. I appreciate the input. Also, please do not take this as me being dramatic or me being attention seeking. This situation really messes with anxiety, which can blur my view on many things.

Take it one second at a time and breathe. If the police you contacted are local, skip them and contact state police. They have resources of tracking down who it is. If you're fearing for your safety and your loved ones safety, you have every right to call and get the process started. There's also online crime unit reporting. It's basically filling out a police report online and if any information in their database pops up of others in your situation appear they'll contact you (they contact regardless)... I only know because I had a doctor that stalked me and other pts. It was a nightmare and a long drawn out process but now he's unable to use his position of power to prey on others. He loved to use technology to play mind games, and in the end it was his downfall.

What all has this person already done that you can document and prove? How long has it been happening?

I will try contacting state police, thank you for the recommendation. Also there are plenty, of which I do have undeniable proof. Mainly photos of such things happening. And as for how long, I'd say about a month.

 

[Brokenwithbpd]

How are you feeling now

 

[Notwinnernotawin]

I'm facing something a little bit similar. Hope everything goes well for you.

 

[8272019]

How are you feeling now

Feeling kinda better, still working on a lot of things