Hi reader!! So I live in an undesirable environment (living at home w parents) and it's not exactly good for me. I'm trying to move out atm, but I have no job, no car and just graduated. Anyone who has been in this situation before, could you give me some advice? I really just want to leave this place. If you've done this before, can you give me any advice?
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tonicer
Arcanist
- Nov 13, 2025
- 409
Don't move out if you don't have a stable income. My older brother did it and he regrets it all the time.
AnxiousLife
scared of people
- Jan 13, 2025
- 92
I also would like to move out, but don't have a job. Even when I tried to find a place (and when I had money), no one wanted to rent it to me for some reason :/
coolcow1289
Student
- Mar 17, 2026
- 155
Been there lol. People who rent will want to see steady income. You'll have to find a job.
It depends where you are if there's work available. Look up local employers and go to their website to see what's hiring. Construction is usually an option.
Once you get a job, calculate your budget. Maybe find a place with roommates. If you're near any college you should be able to find people willing to live as roommates. Then lease a cheap car. Go from there.
I did this as a young man. I can't do it all again.
But my heart hurts for the younger generation. The jobs aren't there. It's so difficult. Then when you get one employers aren't loyal.
I need to stop complaining and get it over with.
