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Stubborn idiot that gives up too easily
- Jun 7, 2020
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Anyone want to kill themselves now but either can't due to limited opportunities for resources or wanting to give your family more time with you?
Yes I have put it off for a few years for my mother's sake. But this brain and body damage from SSRIs hasn't improved at all and is permanent and too severe so I will have to go through with it soon. I can't put myself through this anymore.Anyone want to kill themselves now but either can't due to limited opportunities for resources or wanting to give your family more time with you?
Very sad to hear that but if you don't mind me asking, what do you mean when you say you survive so your family won't implode?I haven't logged in on here for some time now. It is surprising for me to see that the moment I decide to check on the forum, I find this very post which describes my particular situation.
My desire to live died a long ago, I cannot work properly, and that's all I was left with when my hopes for the future died. So I have to work very hard to obtain only mediocre results, just to survive another day so my family don't implode.
Knowing it will be a long and empty life, and seeing how every one of my relatives are so self-centered, I may as well do it sooner. I'm sorry but I don't have sympathy for selfish people.
Yes I have put it off for a few years for my mother's sake. But this brain and body damage from SSRIs hasn't improved at all and is permanent and too severe so I will have to go through with it soon. I can't put myself through this anymore.
Your SSRI experience sounds truly awful. Taking any type of prescription drugs scare me with the stories other people have given.Yes. Kind of. I moved in with my father in January, because I lost my job and home. My first attempts were when I lived alone. I'm trying to wait so I can ctb somewhere else, because I don't want him to have to find my body. So it's not necessarily that I want to give them more time for me, I just hate the idea of my father finding me. I don't know if I can wait much longer though, and if I can't, I'm going to try and do it so where my brother finds me instead. He lives here too. I'm pretty sure he's a psychopath and won't be devastated by it.
SSRIs ruined me too. I have a good idea of the pain you're in. They gave me akathisia, which I'm still battling eight months after I stopped. Total anhedonia, non-existent libido or even romantic desire. Worst drug I've ever taken, and I used to be an opiate addict (even shooting up heroin) years ago. I was able to recover from years of that kind of abuse in a relatively short time, but I think these damn antidepressants finally beat me.
I mean that I have to take care of myself to stay alive even though I don't want to live another day just so my family won't be sad. By family I mean parents, siblings and close relatives, I don't have a family of my own.Very sad to hear that but if you don't mind me asking, what do you mean when you say you survive so your family won't implode?
I see what you're saying and I can relate to those same feelings you have about suicide and your family. I wish for your peace, my friend.I mean that I have to take care of myself to stay alive even though I don't want to live another day just so my family won't be sad. By family I mean parents, siblings and close relatives, I don't have a family of my own.
I said it that way because suicide is seen as one of the most tragic ways to die because people think that it is avoidable in every case, even though that's not true; and it comes with a ripple effect of guilt and maybe even the same symptoms of depression that one once experienced.
Edit: about the specifics on the choice of "implode" as an adjective for that situation, there isn't much cohesion in my family and I happen to be the center because I don't take sides, I just want some peace y'know.
What do you mean by that?You know I would stick around for them but there's this real stupid thing I have, its called logic!
Sticking around for someone else is illogicalWhat do you mean by that?
Yeah I agree. When I started believing this, I've been more at peace and made me want to kill myself even more now but I do want to be considerate to others with my death.Sticking around for someone else is illogical
Its selfish if anyone expects you to, not really fair to you is it?
Especially if your situation is unbearable
Honestly letting go of caring about people's reaction to my death and starting to care more about my own way out of suffering, I no longer am willing to wait as long as I planned originally.I was going to wait til my parents died and I cared so much, but now I don't. I'm the one who has to suffer every day, not them.
"Nothing in my life has ever made me want to commit suicide more than people's reaction to my trying to commit suicide."Yeah I agree. When I started believing this, I've been more at peace and made me want to kill myself even more now but I do want to be considerate to others with my death.
Honestly letting go of caring about people's reaction to my death and starting to care more about my own way out of suffering, I no longer am willing to wait as long as I planned originally.
Even if you were worried how others would react to you CTB its usually just not enough for us."Nothing in my life has ever made me want to commit suicide more than people's reaction to my trying to commit suicide."
-Emilie Autumn
Having a partner has its caveats - after all you'd be dealing with another person and all their baggage around suicide, their life circumstances, and there's the legal risk as well.I'm staying around just till my family is in a better place emotionallu and financially before Ctb.
That being said, there are times when my wife gets snappy or just passive aggressive, and it makes we wish I had 8 hours or so for SN. Probably help if I had a partner.