NSFW Just sexted w a guy I met once

[obei]

Just to clarify he did not sc anything (as far as I know) (we were on snap) …
I really feel like a whore rn.
Idk for me this is not ordinary thing, I am tipsy rn, Im getting off rn, but I was kinda drunk and sent nudes to a guy that wants to be friends w benefits… getting in touch w my friend who may know dealer who can get me oxi so I can ctb.
Is this a big deal?
Should I think much about it?
He wants me to go f him, and by that I will lose my v card, so should I get drunk before that and do it, then ctb soon after?
Most people here are older than me (im 18f) so give me advice.

 

[mizu23]

as long as it's fully consensual, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. you're an adult and can do as you please.

you are not a whore hun, just don't do anything you're not comfortable with and stay safe <3

 

[Life_and_Death]

i personally wouldnt if i were you. especially if you need to be drunk, feel the need to ask for advice and are hesitant.
all of this tells me youre not ready and that you dont exactly want to.

listen to your heart, dont make rash decisions and do whats best for you

 

[Mirrory Me]

It's normal to feel attracted to someone else. Whether you go there drunk depends on you and your partner's wishes, just don't get too excited.

 

[leavingthesoultrap]

I my opinion it's better to do it with someone you have connection with. But you do you. Just make sure you are safe

 

[Argo]

Many people who are older and experienced would probably say just fucking some stranger at 18 who you don't feel anything for is in the "Regrets" bin, but who the hell knows, maybe this is your way of getting exactly what you want. No one can really decide for you because they really don't know the complexity of your life. Maybe you have no other way of getting those pills, but that's a pretty terrible situation to be in. If the pills are just a cherry on top, that's different. So what I would do is just reflect on what I actually want. And if you make a mistake, remember, that's okay, people make mistakes. So don't be paralyzed by fear of making mistakes either. Be kind to yourself.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

There's nothing to feel bad about. You got horny and sent some nudes to a dude you liked, so what? So long as it was all completely consensual then there is nothing to feel bad about. You didn't do anything wrong and this doesn't make you a whore (not that there's even anything wrong with being a whore in the first place).