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U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based" gigashad
Aug 8, 2022
2,600
1751979639102

I seem to remember back in my early days, that number would be anywhere from less than, to maybe 1-2x the number of actual members. 2,600?! Christ, no matter how you slice it, that's worrying.
 
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noname223

Archangel
Aug 18, 2020
6,937
Actually, I think on peak there were more than 5k guests online. However, I think years ago there were way more members online.
 
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Apathy79

Apathy79

Paragon
Oct 13, 2019
933
Maybe an article or Youtube video came out about the site recently. I think that's usually when we see these spikes isn't it?
 
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InversedShadow

InversedShadow

Specialist
Dec 28, 2023
302
It truly is disturbing, wouldn't surprise me if some of those weren't actual people but just an effect of trying to overload a server by the 3rd party such as DDOS attackers
 
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NoPoint2Life

NoPoint2Life

Why is this so hard?
Aug 31, 2024
956
I think most of the time it has to do with bots. People trying to take the site down.
But maybe I'm wrong because I follow the" introduce yourself" thread, and there were quite a few new ones in the last 24 hours. And like half of them are from the UK which I found even more ironic!
 
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psp3000

psp3000

Enlightened
May 20, 2023
1,716
they are tapping on the aquarium glass and it's scaring me
 
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Dayrain

Mage
Feb 3, 2023
530
Actually, I think on peak there were more than 5k guests online.
I've seen nearly 9k a few days ago, I even think there were even more at one point.
 
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Dot

Info abt typng styl on prfle.
Sep 26, 2021
3,748
Yh = prbbly jst bots & ddos tbf
 
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Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
6,771
dinner-guests
 
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alt131313

Member
Jul 4, 2025
19
Speaking as someone new to the site, I learned about it in an article I came across....personally I'm glad this place exists, its nice to have a place to be frank about this topic without fear of judgement and/or censorship. I'm sure there are plenty of bots and the like, but for people dealing with this sort of thing signing up to this site is a no brainer.
 
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Unsure and Useless

Dreaming Endlessly, not Wanting to Wake Up
Feb 7, 2023
600
I got bored and did some math. As of typing this, there were 204 members online and 2,003 guests online. This is a ratio of 9.8186 guests—or just 10 since there can't be 0.82 of a person—to every member.
 
Dark Moon

Dark Moon

Paragon
Sep 21, 2022
966
I saw that, I'm guessing a lot of it is bots and some lurkers.
 
U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based" gigashad
Aug 8, 2022
2,600
Hm, well, there is a LOT less right now - posting for posterity:

1756700538100
 
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fallendevil

Horrible Woman
Oct 6, 2024
779
I think it's always been like this, due to the sites nature after all…

I think it's morbid curiosity, hate watching, and minors searching up methods that they're too young to access.
 
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U. A.

"Ultra Based" gigashad
Aug 8, 2022
2,600
@The Morningstar

There are still quite few. Noticed on my VPN the site does a human verification check now which it wasn't doing before. Something to do with the DDOS? I guess those extra two thousand really were bots...
 
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trying ungracefully

Experienced
Jun 11, 2025
225
@The Morningstar

There are still quite few. Noticed on my VPN the site does a human verification check now which it wasn't doing before. Something to do with the DDOS? I guess those extra two thousand really were bots...
I don't use a VPN and I've been getting the human verification too so it probably is due to bot activity
 
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EternalHunger

EternalHunger

tired of everything
Sep 3, 2025
115
Probably people that was like me before making this account, just lurking on the site for information on methods or how others are dealing with it.
 
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