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γƒͺンさん

γƒͺンさん

Rina β€’ she/her, lesbian
Sep 9, 2023
323
The girl I was in love with was dating someone this whole time. For years.

Im in so much unexplainable pain and confusion. Im still in shock. I don't want to believe this. Please, let me wake up
 
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tiger b

tiger b

AI without the I
Oct 24, 2023
1,229
WHAT!!!!

F*** ****

She was acting like a noob in a relationship??
 
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γƒͺンさん

γƒͺンさん

Rina β€’ she/her, lesbian
Sep 9, 2023
323
WHAT!!!!

F*** ****

She was acting like a noob in a relationship??
I know right. By the way she was communicating with me, I was convinced that she never had much romantic experience.

Turns out shes been with one girl for years, and numerous others throughout those years. I'm so glad I found out. Healing will be hard, but it's worth it. I'm worth so much more than all of this.
 
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tiger b

tiger b

AI without the I
Oct 24, 2023
1,229
Oh how jolly nice for her...πŸ˜•

Healing will be hard, but it's worth it. I'm worth so much more than all of this.
Definitely. You know you did everything you could. Easily worth more, yeh.

Words fail me. Not going to give you all the pithy stuff about being closer to the right one etc. Go well with your healing
 
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Lullaby

Lullaby

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Mar 9, 2022
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Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I hope you know this isn't a reflection of you, it's her. Some people are really horrible and selfish.

I'm happy you were able to find out too, just try to be easy on yourself right now.
 
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loser098

loser098

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Nov 16, 2023
56
Never fails…

Sorry, OP.
 
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γƒͺンさん

γƒͺンさん

Rina β€’ she/her, lesbian
Sep 9, 2023
323
Oh how jolly nice for her...πŸ˜•


Definitely. You know you did everything you could. Easily worth more, yeh.

Words fail me. Not going to give you all the pithy stuff about being closer to the right one etc. Go well with your healing
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I hope you know this isn't a reflection of you, it's her. Some people are really horrible and selfish.

I'm happy you were able to find out too, just try to be easy on yourself right now.
Thank you all for the support. I do still love the version of her that she showed me, that situation unfortunately doesn't erase what was built between us in an instance (as much as I wish it did).

But I do absolutely know that I lost nothing in this situation. I was genuine and honest with her. She did an unforgivable thing, and I know that we will never talk again, but I'm happy to say I loved and wallowed in this fantasy for some time at least.

Im going to move on. And hopefully meet someone much, much better.
 
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