Venting Just found out my partner was using me

[attheend13]

I came home depressed and barely hanging on. My partner told me to get 200 grand so he can keep his condo during his divorce if I want to stay with him. I have spent every last cent of my money to make a life with him a week ho I told him I'm broke today he gave me this ultimatum. I'm broken. My heart is shattered . I'm destroyed. I didn't want to live when I got up this morning and I cant survive this. I can't. I went bankrupt for someone who doesn't have any feelings for me at all. I gave up everything, I'm a fool. I hate myself. I loved him I loved him so much. He used me. He used me and the second there was no more money he turned.

 

[WakingNightmare]

If you've put money into the apartment and have been living there as a gf in a western country you can get some of that back via lawyer when you break up

 

[gottacheckout]

Don't hate yourself you just feel in love. Hate him for what he did to you. Your heart is broken, I get that. But as much as it hurts it will heal with time. Don't let him destroy you, you're stronger than that.

 

[bankai]

I hope you can seek legal remedies OP.I'm so sorry he did this.