Discussion It's so strange how it's the people that hurt me that are the ones that ask me if I am okay. Relatable?

[greyblue_bian]

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[Forever Sleep]

Do you think they are starting to feel guilt/ remorse?

 

[greyblue_bian]

Do you think they are starting to feel guilt/ remorse?

No, quite the opposite. The people I have had like this in my life all see me not being in their lives anymore as some self or life improvement and that I am entirely in the wrong. The worst thing is that I always feel bad and feel like I am entirely in the wrong when it is evident I am not. But, I cannot be the only one going through things like this. It just doesn't seem like a unique struggle.

 

[sayire]

friends or family?

if family, to me it is understandable. its source of both happiness and misery.

is that because they are the only ones that know about your situation?

 

[greyblue_bian]

friends or family?

if family, to me it is understandable. its source of both happiness and misery.

is that because they are the only ones that know about your situation?

It's been both. I'm currently going through some confrontation with my family and they don't seem to think they have any fault in how I feel towards them and why I decide not to open up so much to them. And, they are not really the only ones who know.

And to answer the last question, no it's not that kind of situation. It's most probably because they know no one else knows so we can keep pretending like we are fine when other people are here. That's what we've been doing at least.

 

[sayire]

lot of shit can happen in the name of "tough love". maybe they want to "help" you get better when it is really them that they want to please themselves that they are really there for you and you are the one that does not want to cooperate.

 

[crimsonpool]

i relate...its a weird feeling